Okay, it was way more than ‘that one time’ ;)
But wowza, did I wish I knew the goldmine that was under there from the start…
The way we show up in the bedroom, is the way we show up in every other area of our lives.
As I’ve grown my biz into the multiple 6 figure range over the last 3 years, it has revealed to me, over & over, where I was either available, or 𝙣𝙤𝙩 available, for 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞.
When I first started my biz (as a holistic health coach + boxing/yoga teacher 10 years ago), like many of our relationships start, it was 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙚 𝙡𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙡.
There was more focus on the external, the image, the identity piece, the ‘am I really this?, ‘how can I be more of this?’ Kind of thing.
As the years went on,
my relationship to my biz changed.
Some moments were great. Filled with love, secure attachment & receiving.
Other years were, 𝗻𝗼𝘁.
When I fell out with myself,
the more you strengthen your ‘no’
the more 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 you become
because your ‘𝙣𝙤’
is really just your ‘𝙮𝙚𝙨’
you’re a 𝒎𝒂𝒈𝒏𝒆𝒕
& calling in
is 𝙘𝙤𝙨𝙢𝙞𝙘 𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙮
doesn’t care what language you use
about the 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐬
the more 𝙣𝙤’𝙨 you have
the stronger your field gets
this makes you 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐧𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜 as ever
and a really strong receiver
for your heart’s deepest desires
keep your awareness on 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒆𝒍𝒅
energetically hold 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 vision
embody 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 highest self
to crystalize your reality
let your no’s
be your roadmap
to the bigger
a deeper conversation on this subject with a breakdown to implement & optimize is on a brand new solocast on The Reclamation Project on iTunes / Spotify!
It’s always right there showing us, through its natural function, how to take what is already inside of us, out into the world.
These functions teach us to live in harmony with both the ecosystem within, & around us.
Arousal: Under the Erotic Blueprint framework, I’m an Energetic Shapeshifter (links in bio to take the quiz). This means slow, anticipatory touch gets be hot, wet, & ready. Too much too fast usually makes me shut off & lose my turn on.
My body literally THRIVES on less is more.
For me, this is how I operate in biz x life. Less is more. The more I slow down & the more I stay present in my body, the more pleasure, wealth, success I create.
Orgasm: generally speaking - there’s quite the build up, climax, & come down. After a roller coaster like that, the body needs some stillness & rest.
Same in life. We have a launch, a big event in biz...
As we move
It’s easy to know ourselves
in the comfort of our own space
But in community
There are edges
is what we must press up against
for a new level of Self
What’s been helpful for you in getting into communal space after deep self work?
How we walk around in our sex
is a great tell
for whats happening everywhere else
This doesn’t feel good
anywhere in our body
Holding our sex in that way
to me, is like holding our breath in, to life
Constantly taking in
rather than receiving
They are different
One is in ego
and the other
in our sex
is to relax
When we are bracing, clenching, holding
we are cutting off
from the flow of erotic creation
that wants to be unleashed
we have to open the gates to allow
and let God
Through the openness
in our hearts,
of our sex,
and with our bodies
[codes from my last moon]
Applications for my 1:1 are open…
Your feminine wants more, wants bigger, wants better. She wants it harder & faster & deeper.
Let’s give her want she...
Money codes money codes money codes
Currency flows where we see
and where we don’t see
We pay what we pay
for our mentors
because we get more than the tangible
the things we see with our own
two human eyes
We up level from their frequency
we receive the energetics of the level they’re holding
For the collective
For their vision
for the mission being birthed through them
Our mentors x coaches
are holding the energetics
the higher expanded vibrations
that allow us to rise up x step into
In the same way we hold specific codes for our clients
We are all leading each other home
magic everywhere around us
Take time for all the contact you can
stay in your body
breath in the present x the greatness of those around you
Keep holding the energy of your queendom
Allow it to keep expanding
Claim your space
Claim it wide x big x deep
take up all of it
And allow those around you to rise with the...
Its not the anger thats the problem, its the way we let it run its course through our system
Is it being held in love…without judgement?
& with erotic innocence?
Or are we letting it take us into shadow elements like deflection, blame & projection?
I let myself find my aliveness in the extremes when the extremes find me
I let them run through me
I let it fill me & fuel me
rather than drain me
The way its held in my system
is what decides:
drain or fuel
The difference between the two
when we take ownership
of our anger
When we r e a l l y
OWN our anger
In an empowered, sovereign way
kind of anger
I don’t know about you
But I want to touch the chaos
and feel my surrender
It’s where my exhale lives x breathes
This is shadow work
To know the dark feminine
And to know Her well
To know your chaos
Is to know your power
If you’re ready for Freedom...
- breath sound movement -
is the vessel for the expression
of your emotions
You are the vehicle
for the energy to move through you
From the micro
(Your individual energy x the collective)
You are the channel
Let it flow through you
Don’t fight it
Don’t identify with it
Allow yourself to consciously step in
& embody it fully
Allow for the energy to exist
to be known
to be loved
to be met
Don’t just passively let it overwhelm your system
to feel the fullness of your experience
And to make space
for a new energy to arise
After the ashes settle
from what was before
as Love burned through
Feel for new information that follows
Revealing what you need
and where you need
to go next
Applications for 1:1 somatic coaching are now open
I’ll be accepting 4 new soul clients that want to clean x cleanse what’s stored in their body to take their purpose, biz & love to a whole new level of embodiment x...
If we want our divine masculine to provide for us even more, & deliver more of everything we want/ need/ desire, then we better 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹𝘆.
If we don’t suck up all of his already rich, delectable fruits x juices that show up in our lives, and participate with every inch of skin on our supple, pleasure ready bodies, 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙢𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙛𝙪𝙣 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙬𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝?
Our inner masculine wants our inner fem to enjoy, soak up, & revel in all of the goodness that’s both here & on its way to us.
He wants us to be abundant & wealthy.
He wants us to live a turned on life filled with the tastiest of experiences & earth shattering, orgasmic pleasure.
He wants to see our body shiver & tremble with delight as he offers even the slightest touch.
He wants to show us who cash king really is.
He’s got it for us, baby.
With 𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬....
$$$ If you’re investing thousands & thousands on mentors & coaches & strategies & systems & team & education & new certs…
But there’s no dollas being spent on the things that really make your P U S S Y happy…
You’re saying ‘yes’ to the patriarchy
You’re saying ‘yes’ to the paradigm that traps in you the ‘work, grind, work, educate, grind, school, work, grind, you’re not there until you have this thing, work, grind’ mentality.
$$$ If you’re spending thousands on mentors & coaches & education…
AND you have the same amount flowing to the things that make your P U S S Y sing,
Well, you must be fucking flying my friend
When we spend or don’t spend our money, we are saying ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to an energetic flow so much bigger than the very thing we are investing in.
When we really start to play the 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐞, this becomes ...