his. Is. A. Conversation. About. Feeling. Safe. In. Our. Softness.
There was a moment along my submissive journey, where I recognized that I had never known the feeling of standing next to a healthy dominant man.
(Feel into your body...do you??)
I had known what it felt like to stand next to a man...
but never a man that I deeply respected, **trusted over my own intuition**, & in turn could, surrender to.
Attracting a healthy dominant masculine man - one that does not let you walk over them, make you play mommy , project their wounds, or keep you small - requires OPENNESS & POLARITY.
If you want this, understand it asks you to be open & surrendered enough (**softness & vulnerability**) to [actually] be penetrated by the divine masculine.
Believe it or not, there are PLENTY of those men around...
whether or not you let them in is a different question.
The ask of the sacred feminine is depth of the heart ♥
We get angry at men who do not fill the...
A year ago this time, we were a couple of months into a lockdown & I just had my biggest launch yet for Awaken Your Divine Feminine.
Just before everything shut down, I broke up with a boyfriend that was seemingly great.
Nothing was wrong, per say..
But I knew, deep down to my core, that there was MORE.
So, at the beginning of a worldwide quarantine, with no toilet paper, my two dachshunds, my coloring books, & a fire in my belly to receive this MORE I couldn’t see but deeply felt,
I left his greatness for unseen ECSTASIS.
Little did I know, I was about to go on a deep journey over the course of the next 8 months.
A summary of that journey…
It was a time of breaking open as I evoked my submissive archetype, healed deep seated wounds of the masculine, integrated my Inner Father, shed religious trauma around authority x obedience, & formed a kinky relationship with God Himself.
It was sPicEYY.
I spent days on my knees crying, facing & feeling the pain I caused men.
The other night in bed with Paul, we were talking about recovery from addiction, & how many people who get sober, don’t do the inner work.
I turned to him & said, “Thank you for doing yours.” (he’s sober)
He said, “While I did it for me, I also did it for you, even though I didn’t know you yet.”
This is why I’ve also gone so hard in the self growth game.
After growing up in an abusive home, and jumping from one abusive relationship to the next, I know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of unresolved trauma.
(Don’t we all!)
You can see someone’s heart, & still not be able to help them get out of their own way.
(Same with ourselves, cough cough ;))
The vulnerability we have & share, I know wouldn’t be possible if either of us hadn’t done/continue to do, our shadow work.
Working with my submissive archetype (I did this 5 months before I met him), allowed me to drop into my heart with men in...
Topping from the bottom anyone?
If we want a man to lead, we need to create the SPACE to let him do so!
You’re probably really used to doing it all by yourself...
cooking dinner, cleaning, grocery shopping, having your tire fixed, getting gas, fixing the lightbulb
You’ve had to learn to do it all,
& you’ve gotten really good at it!
But never opening up the space to let him lead, means
**he can’t figure out what or where his role is in your life**
Men are the providers & protectors.
They want to DO for us.
If we keep automatically doing the things before he even gets the chance to do it, we’re never going to feel fulfilled because we’ve stopped it before it even started‼
Giving up control is easier said than done.
But just for second, ask your body how it feels to always be the one figuring it out…
It’s time to let go & return to trust.
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Key Practices for Creating Safety in Submission
You should never yield to corrupt power.
Your submission is earned.
In order to come into devotional submission, there has to be...
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Emasculating men is a pandemic
A ballsy statement in a pandemic #punseverywhere
Read for a RED HOT TRUTH!
Speaking for him
Ordering his food
Opening our own door
Giving him money
Making him lists
Scheduling date night
We’re cutting their balls off
...and then expecting them to take us into the bedroom & fuck us into a coma
TRUTH: no one wants to fuck their mom
You CAN be both a successful, independent woman & still have the relationship/s you want
It won’t happen if you are mommying them around during the day
A healthy, dominant man won’t put up with that.
Evoking your submissive archetype is a deeper journey into your feminine expression.
Deliciously erotic? You bet.
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Disclaimer: this is NOT about gender. Masculine / feminine are polarities - like yin / yong. I work mainly with cis women, in...
Submission & Empowered Femininity
You can be a successful woman & still be a submissive. They can BOTH exist - but not at the same time same place, & especially not in the bedroom.
The deep yearning in our feminine hearts to let go of full control & be taken by our lover, asks us to actually L E T G O! And allow him to lead.
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I’m gonna say it
Our fierce independency as women in this modern day world is beautiful
It really doesn’t leave a lot of space for partnership
Relationships are evolving
Gender roles have changed
& the gender binary is now a spectrum
I believe all of this...
I also believe in POLARITY & finding what feels good for YOU, in your body, & your relationships.
For me, and most of the women I meet & work with…
There’s a deep craving for a man to lead
…a yearning to be taken care of & cared for (despite our ability & great success we’ve had in doing it on our own)
Men are the protectors & providers
constantly take control
always provide for ourselves
call the shots
& tell everyone else what to do
we probably get shit DONE in life & have MAJOR conflict in relationship.
We are fighting for the top with our men
And leave little space for them to come in & fulfill their sacred role.
Men don’t want to compete with their...
10 Things these new babies reminded me of...
Our body can only take so much.
No matter how strong we think we are, there are still things that can hurt us.
Being out of the body is sometimes a great thing.
Every part of our body feels pain, which means every part of our body can feel pleasure.
Social media is extremely distracting.
It’s okay to hug ourselves.
Numbing ourselves to the pain may get us through, but eventually it’ll all sink in, & we’ll need to feel it to heal it.
It feels great to lean on others when we’re at this stage.
The healing process is itchy & uncomfortable, but something beautiful is on the other side.
What was the biggest lesson you learned last week?
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Having so much fun with all of these
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I’ve had the most fun/luck with @hinge!
I always find gems on there that after a few dates & no clear future, we stay friends
What’s your favorite dating app? (IG counts)
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