when you know you can create something... ( i.e. wealth, clients, partnership, next level leadership)

& you say you reallyyyyy want ti

but it;s not showing up...

it's probably because you're not showing up

...to the commitment the next level is asking of you

if you’re constantly beating yourself up for not being where you *know* you can be in biz + life….this one’s for you

i’d read this one to the end…if you like free coaching

throughout the enrollment process for IN THE FLESH…the biggest thing i’ve heard is INDECISION

‘i need to feel into it’
‘i’m going to sit with it’
‘i’m gonna check in with my womb’

as we dig deeper

the FEAR living underneath
ALWAYS reveals itself

(if you let yourself explore that, you’ll see that at a certain point ‘sitting with it’ is just avoiding a decision)

HERE’S WHAT I’VE GOT FOR YOU:

if you were REALLY...

my TOP TIP to manifest the desires you want so badly but aren’t showing up

“oh…you think this was easy?! “

creating x launching IN THE FLESH challenged me in the biggest ways

Watch video HERE

indecision x pu$$y

she may lead you to places & people & things that make you nauseous

nauseous at the challenge it gives you

know it’s for your highest good…& rise to the challenge

your bleeding yourself dry with the indecision…& draining your precious energy

Watch Video HERE

are you in a place of “I WANT THIS” with IN THE FLESH but simultaneously feel hesitation & fear in your body?
maybe there’s thoughts like:

“ i need more foundation first.”
“i know i don’t need to know the how…but I can’t see the how.”
“i’m a content junkie & promised myself i wouldn’t do another program for awhile.”
“i need to have this *in order/complete/sorted out* before I do this.”
“am i really ready for this??”

if you’re feeling any of this is
my invitation for you

is to get out of your head
& back into your body

your heart
your womb
your pu$$y
your truth
your soul

the rest is noise

what would happen…
what would become available…

if you made decisions by following the FEELING of expansion?

the turn on of your pxssy?
the possibility of a new narrative?

if you sit with pu$$y
& really let yourself FEEL her

she will weed out the noise
& give you the courage to...

Spiritual Women Navigating Spiritual Trash

workshop happening tomorrow night at 5 PM mountain time at @cosmicteaholisticshop - if you are not local to Denver we are streaming the workshop live so you don’t miss a beat.

boundaries, how to have hard conversations, how to stay open and protected…& lots more!

message me for the link to enroll - it’s not listed on my website or my linktree

NOTE: the investment for the workshop goes up to $222 on sunday. make sure you enroll now even if you’re grabbing the replay

how do you be a $exually liberated woman in a nonconsensual world?

how do you know WHO to TRUST?

how do you stay OPEN & PROTECTED?

how do you know who is rlly in their integrity?

i’ve yet to meet a woman UNAFFECTED by our patriarchal misogynist culture

…who has lived a life FREE from $exual assault/ cat calling/ inappropriate projections + actions towards her body

even for those of us who have ‘never had trauma’ - do in fact have trauma around this subject

i have been in MANY abusive relationships in my life

from emotional to physical abuse
a nonconsensual pregnancy
multiple leaders who have crossed boundaries in a way that indicates - this is FAR from the 1st time

a lot of it had to do w my unresolved childhood trauma & souls curriculum

but a lot of it also had to do w my open heart, my belief in the GOOD of humanity, my knowing that people CAN change, my TRUST in humans that have held powerful positions of leadership

over the last few yrs

i have dived deep into...

hard truth

you're not setting boundaries because 'you're an empath & care about the other person's feelings'

you're not setting boundaries because you're *not caring for yourself*

choosing ourselves is not always  the easy choice

we think being 'there' - healed, clear, free - means decisions become simple & straightforward...

& while they can be, they're not always the path of least resistance.

we might have the awareness...but we still need to follow our Truth. 

there's stuff to deal with & address on BOTH sides...

xx the decision to stay in an unhealthy pattern is hard. 

xx the decision to let go of that comfortable  unhealthy pattern is hard. 

choosing ourselves is often choosing to let go of something.

... an identity, a people pleasing behavior we've had for years, a trauma response we picked up as a child, a person who no longer serves us...

finally choosing ourselves is like looking...

my heart is heavy today
as i heal from a major violation
from a dear mentor
who has shown me their shadow

leadership
power dynamics
integrity
boundaries

are hot topics in my world

especially as i bring
IN THE FLESH Mystery School
a facilitator training
into creation

i’ve been in the coaching industry for over a decade

& i’ve invested somewhere around 400k in mentors

i’ve experienced many humans in this space…from different backgrounds, identities, locations, ways of life, genders, orientations, etc.

the truth remains…

that at the end of the day

we are all human

& the dark
the shadow

lives in every single one of us

even when we’ve looked at it
made friends with it
tamed it
loved it

it’s still there within us

when we hold the position of *leader*
we hold a higher level of responsibility

we must have unshakable integrity

it’s a non negotiable

sure…

we can still fuck up
& make mistakes

it’s gonna happen
…we are human, alas

but those mistakes...

i test positive for HSV-1

& so does 2/3 of the population under 5 years of age

note: the statistics are often inaccurate when it comes to viruses:)

...because they can lay dormant & many of us are asymptomatic

it’s hard to know how i/we/any of us have contracted…bc viruses are tricky little things

but my story goes like this

i was rope tied…face down…w a man i deeply trusted to keep me safe in a dom/sub setting

however, in the heat of the moment, for whatever reason

he decided not to use a condom, going against all consent conversations

i was NOT aware

bc i was deep in subspace, w my face pressed into the bed

around a week later…i had my first outbreak & tested positive for HSV-1

i called this man, a deeply trusted figure in the Mens’ Coaching Space - a man that ‘stands’ for integrity, honesty & truth - a man that teaches consent, boundaries x kink

& asked

“did you use a condom?”
he said, “no”

i told...

@juliannevaccaro is back and this time with her; 𝓢𝓹𝓲𝓻𝓲𝓽𝓾𝓪𝓵 𝓦𝓸𝓶𝓮𝓷 Navigating 𝓢𝓹𝓲𝓻𝓲𝓽𝓾𝓪𝓵 𝑻𝑹𝑨𝑺𝑯 workshop!

Are you out here navigating the dating/finding a lover/partner/pleasure scene? Have you experienced “spiritual” people that have left you feeling like WTF?!

You don’t have to navigate this alone babe‍Join Julianne exploring with you topics on integrity, having hard conversations, boundaries - how to stay safe & protected while having an open sexuality

Julianne Vaccaro is a Somatic Sexologist, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, & a Women's Spiritual Mentor. She is the creatrix of the Goddess Approach™ methodology combining Holistic Health, Spiritual Psychology & Embodiment Work. She works with powerful, purpose driven women to self heal, reclaim their erotic goddess, & come home to their bodies. With over a decade of experience, her clients transform from feeling stuck & unsafe in their body, to a life of freedom, pleasure, power &...