What Would You Do For the Man of Your Dreams?

Jun 10, 2021

If you keep running up against a wall in your relationships because:

you hold grudges
have emotional outbursts that have nothing to do with your current partner
express controlling behavior
think no man will ever be enough
don’t feel safe in your vulnerability
never really let them in (your heart)
keep attracting ’weak’ men
have loads of unresolved resentment
keep convincing yourself you’re not looking for a relationship but end up settling in one anyway
you’re so successful everywhere else but the relationships fail
secretly don’t feel worthy of real love or pleasure
blame blame blame
manipulate manipulate manipulate

Girl, I’ve got you!


There’s only **TWO DAYS** left to apply for LOVE SEX MEN!

We cannot let men lead, until we have forgiven the wounds of the past, & TRUST enough, to sink into a place of surrender & submission

But before we can trust,
we need to feel SAFE…

And before we can feel safe with anyone else,

we need to...

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What Your Friends Won't Tell You

Jun 09, 2021

if you’re out here giving your friends the best relationship advice but not taking it for yourself, you probably have unresolved issues/trauma/programming/karma/ancestral wounding


while i know it can feel heavy/daunting/intimidating to look at our ‘shit’

the truth of the matter is…

if it’s left unresolved, you never left that place of wounding anyway

the body remembers everything

but it does not understand T I M E

so if the body never got resolution to your dad leaving when you were little, your ex cheating on you, the sexual assault in college — then it does not understand it to be in the past

as far as the cellular memory is concerned, you are being hurt & living out the wound over & over & over again

this is *why & where* we get stuck, project, & carry out patterns like its our job

TO UNDO this, come join us in LOVE SEX MEN.

we will be healing the wounds of the masculine to evoke your submissive & open to deep...

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Wanting to be appreciated for more than your body...

Jun 08, 2021

Wanting to be appreciated for more than your body...

When you feel stuck, two parts of you are probably at war with one another. If you’ve ever felt like you wanted to be seen for more than your body, this one’s for you. I’ll introduce two concepts that you can take out into the world, to allow yourself to feel safe in expressing your sexuality and receiving attention. LOVE SEX MEN applications are due by SATURDAY! Links in bio

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Nine ways you're self sabotaging your relationships

Jun 07, 2021

1. Not advocating for yourself.

holding your voice back when somethings feels off or uncomfortable in your body .

being coy with your needs/wants/desires. This handicaps your partner.

2. sorcery

Saying the things you know will hurt them the most. 

3. Projecting old wounds onto your current partner 

grouping all men together (i.e. all men do this, this always happens) suspecting or blaming them for something your ex bf did. 

4.Holding onto grudges

this keeps the repair work form being done, and can often end up in an emotional outburst. It takes you out of the 'team' mentality and into battle . 

5. Emasculating your partner/being overly critical

thinking you know what is best for them & constantly calling the shots/telling them what to do. Feels like cuddling up next to a porcupine.

6. Talking smack about them to your friends. 

Asking for support outside your relationship is different than complaining & talking poorly about your partner. 


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Re: Attracting a Healthy Dominant Masculine Man

Jun 06, 2021

his. Is. A. Conversation. About. Feeling. Safe. In. Our. Softness.


There was a moment along my submissive journey, where I recognized that I had never known the feeling of standing next to a healthy dominant man.

(Feel into your body...do you??)

I had known what it felt like to stand next to a man...

but never a man that I deeply respected, **trusted over my own intuition**, & in turn could, surrender to.

Attracting a healthy dominant masculine man - one that does not let you walk over them, make you play mommy , project their wounds, or keep you small - requires OPENNESS & POLARITY.

If you want this, understand it asks you to be open & surrendered enough (**softness & vulnerability**) to [actually] be penetrated by the divine masculine.

Believe it or not, there are PLENTY of those men around...

whether or not you let them in is a different question.

The ask of the sacred feminine is depth of the heart ♥

We get angry at men who do not fill the...

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Nothing was wrong, per say.. But I knew, deep down to my core, that there was MORE.

Jun 05, 2021

A year ago this time, we were a couple of months into a lockdown & I just had my biggest launch yet for Awaken Your Divine Feminine.

Just before everything shut down, I broke up with a boyfriend that was seemingly great.

Nothing was wrong, per say..

But I knew, deep down to my core, that there was MORE.

So, at the beginning of a worldwide quarantine, with no toilet paper, my two dachshunds, my coloring books, & a fire in my belly to receive this MORE I couldn’t see but deeply felt,

I left his greatness for unseen ECSTASIS.

Little did I know, I was about to go on a deep journey over the course of the next 8 months.

A summary of that journey…

It was a time of breaking open as I evoked my submissive archetype, healed deep seated wounds of the masculine, integrated my Inner Father, shed religious trauma around authority x obedience, & formed a kinky relationship with God Himself.

It was sPicEYY.

I spent days on my knees crying, facing & feeling the pain I caused men.


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Everything We Don't or Won't Heal, We are Asking Someone Else to Deal With

Jun 04, 2021

The other night in bed with Paul, we were talking about recovery from addiction, & how many people who get sober, don’t do the inner work.

I turned to him & said, “Thank you for doing yours.” (he’s sober)

He said, “While I did it for me, I also did it for you, even though I didn’t know you yet.”


This is why I’ve also gone so hard in the self growth game.

After growing up in an abusive home, and jumping from one abusive relationship to the next, I know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of unresolved trauma.

(Don’t we all!)

You can see someone’s heart, & still not be able to help them get out of their own way.

(Same with ourselves, cough cough ;))

The vulnerability we have & share, I know wouldn’t be possible if either of us hadn’t done/continue to do, our shadow work.

Working with my submissive archetype (I did this 5 months before I met him), allowed me to drop into my heart with men in...

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Taking Control In Relationships without "Really" taking control

Jun 03, 2021

Topping from the bottom anyone?

If we want a man to lead, we need to create the SPACE to let him do so!

You’re probably really used to doing it all by yourself...

‍cooking dinner, cleaning, grocery shopping, having your tire fixed, getting gas, fixing the lightbulb

You’ve had to learn to do it all,
& you’ve gotten really good at it!

But never opening up the space to let him lead, means

**he can’t figure out what or where his role is in your life**

Men are the providers & protectors.

They want to DO for us.

If we keep automatically doing the things before he even gets the chance to do it, we’re never going to feel fulfilled because we’ve stopped it before it even started‼

I know…

Giving up control is easier said than done.

But just for second, ask your body how it feels to always be the one figuring it out…

Exhausting, yah?

It’s time to let go & return to trust.

LOVE S3X MEN, an 8 week journey to heal the wounds of the...

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Key Practices for Creating Safety in Submission

Jun 03, 2021

Key Practices for Creating Safety in Submission

You should never yield to corrupt power.

Your submission is earned.

In order to come into devotional submission, there has to be...

» trust, safety, faith, respect & forgiveness «

Watch for an easy embodiment ritual & the inner work needed to create safety in submission.

LOVE S3X MEN applications are OPEN!

8 week journey of healing the wounds of the masculine, evoking your submissive, & opening to deep intimacy x connection.

Apply now via link in bio

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Every time You Tell Your Man What to Do....

Jun 02, 2021

Emasculating men is a pandemic
A ballsy statement in a pandemic #punseverywhere

Read for a RED HOT TRUTH!

Speaking for him
Ordering his food
Opening our own door
Giving him money
Making him lists
Scheduling date night

We’re cutting their balls off

...and then expecting them to take us into the bedroom & fuck us into a coma

TRUTH: no one wants to fuck their mom

You CAN be both a successful, independent woman & still have the relationship/s you want

It won’t happen if you are mommying them around during the day

A healthy, dominant man won’t put up with that.

Evoking your submissive archetype is a deeper journey into your feminine expression.

Taboo? Sure.

Deliciously erotic? You bet.

LOVE S3X MEN - heal the wounds of the masculine, evoke your submissive, & open to deep intimacy x connection is OPEN for APPLICATION!

You know where to find it ;)

Disclaimer: this is NOT about gender. Masculine / feminine are polarities - like yin / yong. I work mainly with cis women, in...

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