It’s in everything
Anger x rage are some of the more challenging emotions I see humans, especially womxn, having a hard time accessing & expressing in somatics
It often holds deep roots of shame,
threaded with societal fear
“Anger is wrong”
“If I have anger, I’m a bad person.”
“If I express it, I’ll be too dangerous.”
“If I feel it, I’m not as spiritual as I thought I was.”
“I’m not as far along on my journey.”
“I’ll never come out of it.”
“It’s not feminine.”
“What will others think?”
It’s easy to feel rage & make up a story
To make it mean something about our Self
Instead of allowing it run to through, self judgement creeps in
Anger is one of my favorite emotions to play with
It’s always been easily accessible for me...
it wasn’t something that awakened my turn on & magnetism like it is now
It didn’t flow...
I’m always reminded of how much our life is meant to be filled with pleasure when I leave the states.
xx how hard we make things
xx how much we like things
xx how much importance we place on things
It always feels a little contractive to come back to a society that says ‘live to work’ instead of ‘work to live’
What helps you stay out of the madness?
Let me know in the comments
One of my top practices is to spend 2x the amount of hours I work, in pleasure
I learned this from a mentor!
We don’t need to be spending our internal & external energy in the pressure to DO
We think achieving relief is about doing the things, but we’re just meeting the problem with the same energy we’ve created it in
In order to receive, we have to have the space to do so!
I bought myself a gold diamond ring for my 29th birthday last year
But it took me 2.5 years of investing nearly every dollar I made in my biz, back into more education, team, personal healing, mentors & guides...
to realize that I could actually buy myself something for just p l e a s u r e
For ‘just’ happiness
Spending ‘that much’ on a piece of jewelry for myself was something I had never done
That felt B I G
5 months later,
I bought myself a second gold diamond
A much bigger one
On my drive home from the jeweler, I realized that although I had been traveling every month across the states, all my travels had been for education & healing
I sublet my apartment & booked a two month trip to Costa Rica a few weeks later
These were barriers I needed to break within my own consciousness around what was possible to create
My investments for so long were only on things that made me ‘more qualified’ & ‘more healed’
*Womb Room is open!* Running a business & being a bad b*tch requires MORE Self time, not less.
On a 1:1 client call last week, we did a somatic process to dissolve the ‘guilt for not being productive enough’.
being a Productivity Prowess (a module in Blissness x Pleasure) doesn’t come from doing more.
It comes from B E I NG in the moment.
BEING when we’re in the doing AND the being.
Present, quality, intimate Self time supports our overall vision & mission.
We can listen, hear, see, feel, & Know.
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At the start of my Costa trip, I was so self conscious about walking around in a cheeky kini
“You’re a sexologist, you shouldn’t feel this way”
When I started at Soltara, it was an intimate space
w/ humans that came for healing
I was judging myself for only bringing cheeky kinis
“Why’d you do this?”
”You can’t wear those w/ these people”
”We’re here for HEALING”
”You can’t even TALK about s3x here & you’re gonna wear THOSE?”
For the first few days, I covered myself every time I got up
Less & less, I stopped covering
ppl asked what I did, & I hesitantly said I was a Somatic Sexologist
More & more, I said it louder
At one meal, after explaining my work & the work I do with the Erotic Blueprints
I had someone say,
“Oh, so you turn women into FREAKS”
3 years ago, at a tender time in my life & biz development, @rachelbell looked me in the eyes, through zoom obv, & told me,
“You already are & have everything you see in the master coaches you look up to now.”
I’ve carried those words all the way to where I am today
You can create everything you dream of.
You can build it.
You can achieve it.
You can have it all.
just as you are.
Theres no where for you to be or get to in order to make ‘the’ move…
or quit the job
or raise your prices
or attract the ideal partner
or join Blissness x Pleasure :)
You already have all of it within you.
If there’s fear,
know it’s part of the game.
The. Fear. Will. Always. Be. There.
Like I learned in Spiritual Psychology school…
‘It’s not the issue, it’s the way we relate to the issue.’
Your leadership comes in when you feel the fear & parts of you start to freak out when making a...
Having $10k months is great.
Having a partner who cooks for you is great.
Having clients pay you $500 an hour is great.
Having sex that gets you there is great.
Having a friend group that kinda supports you is great.
But you know what’s better?
Letting yourself dream past those glass ceilings & getting everything you want,
& then some.
This was me last year.
And my life was G R E A T.
I was happy.
Happier than I had ever been.
More successful than I had ever been.
But there was a tug from my Higher Self whispering, “there’s SO much more than this, Julianne.”
So I listened.
I broke up with the ‘perfect partner’ at the start of the pandemic.
I ditched the parts of my biz that were holding me back from the next iteration.
I moved out of an apartment that made me happy.
I doubled my rates.
I said adios to people that served their purpose but didn’t feel good anymore.
I let go of what was great…
to make space for something BEYOND.
It. Was. S C A R Y.
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I created Blissness x Pleasure Mastermind because I wanted to birth something that was a combination of somatics with business & pleasure.
Something that took my proven method that has helped myself & my clients make more money than ever before, & scale to 6 figures in less than 8 months, & do it in a loving, GROUP community.
Business can & should be pleasurable.
It’s a fast track for growth.
Entrepreneurs KNOW this.
But instead of running around in circles, trying to figure it out from logic, I created B x P to cut out the bullshit.
So you can scale your online biz into next level bigness & expand your capacity to receive.