big knowledge drop...
if you are waiting for the clients and money to appear....
before you invest, you're living in illusion.
it’s kinda like saying….”i’ll be happy when ______” instead of trusting in your capacity to RECEIVE what you’re working so hard to manifest
your true self knows you gotta be happy (or invest) FIRST…& then the partner x the clients x the wealth will come.
[because through that decision you become the version of yourself that’s a magnetic match to your desires]
your small self? i mean…she means well. but she’s only playing in the 3D.
& the magic of who you are doesn’t live there.
shit gets REAL when you start being LOUDER than the fear voice…the societal projections…& the voice of your dear mother who means well but only wants to keeps you comfortable x safe
read my last post for more on what i’m talkin bout
& get yourSelf into my inbox for...
equal parts boujee & earthy
this weekend has been filled with community, sister dates, pleasure practices, inward journeys ….& whole lotta love!
i brag i got to kick off the weekend with Erotic Blueprint coach friends celebrating the release of Sex Love & @goop on @netflix (if you haven’t watched — GET YOUR BOOTY IN FRONT OF THE TV! couldn’t be a better representation of the work i do as a Somatic Sexologist)….
i brag taught an incredible Erotic Blueprint workshop at @cosmicteaholisticshop…thank you @ericaalisonwellness for being my sexy demo …& @elizabeth_fuckinmarie_psychic for hosting (pssst will be hosting an online workshop in the next few weeks )
i brag i’m going to a Sound Healing event tonight!
eee can’t wait to connect!
& tomorrow i have a somatic session with a client! followed by finalizing IN THE FLESH Mystery School details
g r a t i t u d e
p r e s e n...
working with your SEX….is like taking a rocket ship into your soul & soul’s curriculum
ain’t no hiding when you get in between the sheets
>> sex is THE WORK <<
if you’re scared to face #shame for speaking your truth to your friend when you’re fully clothed
…try it when your ass up & tied to the bed post
(talk about 𝐕𝐔𝐋𝐍𝐄𝐑𝐀𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐘)
one of the many reasons I LOVE working with the 𝑬𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝑩𝒍𝒖𝒆𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒔 is because it gives you an understanding of:
AND your partner/s
…like nothing else
when you have language to put to your desires + turn ons & turn offs….hello ecstatic pleasure x deep, fully body orgasms
want to learn more about the 𝑬𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝑩𝒍𝒖𝒆𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒔?
join me TONIGHT @ @cosmicteaholisticshop at 5 PM MDT!
shoot me a message for the link to sign up!
re: perfectionism & the struggle to orgasm
do you feel like full body pleasure is hard to achieve between the chatter in your head & the difficulty of relaxing into the moment?
i've found a strong thread between those of us that have the...
black & white mondset....the all-or-nothing way of thinking....& perfectionist tendencies.
(also a SHADOW side of the Sensual Erotic Blueprint)
when we're oh so focused on:
the goal + the outcome
the way it should go.
the way it should feel.
the way I should smell.
thewas I should sound.
how long it should/shouldn't take to have an orgasm...
we become further & further away from the pleasure that's available by be-ing on the journey.
....the same pleasure wave that will most likely take us to the orgasm we're after-
but only when we R E L E A S E the pressure of all the 'shoulds'
perfectionist, over-achievers & people pleasers-
control over our bodies, our expressions, how we're...
do you know your Erotic Blueprint?
knowing your Erotic Blueprint is like having an easy-to-follow roadmap for your sexuality
it's a potent framework that supports you in
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO KNOW THIS?
...gives you language & words to get your needs met (+ meet the needs of your lover(s)
...reveals WHO you are as an erotic being, WHAT to ask for, & HOW to ask for it
...uncovers where you are right now + where you want to be
The 5 Eroic Blueprints
if you're an energetic, you probably short circuit if it goes from 0-60 too fast. but with just the right type of light, finger tip, anticipation-filled touch...you're wetter than ever;)
if you're a sensual, you probably have difficulty getting out of your head no matter how much you try to focus. but when everything is JUST right, like the candles & music, you can really let the fuck go.
𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐁𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐱 𝐔𝐧𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 Workshop is at @cosmicteaholisticshop THIS Friday 10/22 at 5 PM MDT!
we need more PLEASURE now more than ever ;)
you may be thinking
pleasure is the LAST thing on my to-do list right now
how am I supposed to feel pleasure when the world is still in crisis?
i have to do the dishes, laundry, tend to my biz & keep myself sane through all of this. rinse & repeat. no spare time.
i can’t get out of my head enough to sit back & self regulate
i’m covered in fear for the world + i feel ALL of the collective fear x contraction
i don’t even have a sex drive
these reasons are WHY we need to amp up our pleasure EVEN MORE!
Sexual release is one of the most efficient & effective ways to reset the nervous system
clients have reported moving through this time with grace, compassion & ease - AND an ability to
make more money
call in ideal clients
have yummy sexy time with their lover x selves
‘you never initiate sex or come onto me’ …. said every boyfriend i ever had
this always made me feel so 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙛𝙪𝙡
i felt like less of a woman
it brought up stories that said:
i wasn’t a sexual person
there was something wrong with me
i didn’t know what i was doing
i wasn’t enough
& they were better off with someone else
this happened for TWO REASONS…
1 i didn’t feel 𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 or in my sexual expression. i grew up with shame around sex, 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙢𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 (wrong, dirty), & a lack of sex ed (aka pleasure)
i picked up on societal cues that told me sex was for men’s pleasure…& my body was there to 𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲
it left me 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐜𝐤...𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐝...& 𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝
2 i later learned…..i’m a primary Energetic on the Erotic Blueprints (dk yours?! dm me for the quiz link!).
this means i’m:
highly turned on by anticipation, tease, & space.
i need grounding, safety, connection & SLOW anticipatory touch to get me...
attention DENVER FRIENDS!
before working with the Erotic Blueprints, i felt like my sexuality was a MYSTERY
i didn’t understand why some sex was SO good…& then other times… i just couldn’t turn on (no matter how much I tried)
i didn’t understand why some partners went from 0-100 in a matter of mins while I needed WAY more of a warm up
most of the time…it ended with me **feeling stuck, broken, unsafe, or too complicated to understand**
i RARELY felt fed
& i HATED being asked,
“what do you want?
& “how do you like it?”
because i. did. NOT. know!
& goddess, i hated using my words in the bedroom - i had no voice.
when i learned about the 5 Erotic Blueprints, everythingggg started to make sense
i learned about my superpowers as an Energetic Shapeshifter (one of many = no touch orgasms ;) & getting super turned on by tease x anticipation, not the 0-100 kinda action
i also found out that all of that self criticism was actually...
Read testimonial HERE
somatic + pleasure work forever changed my life & forever changes my clients lives.
to receive more, we have to feel deeper.
and…everything is experienced through the body first
ready to learn the ancient arts of somatic sexology & body sovereignty?
dm me for where to get started…
i have 3 sexyyyy options available for you: self study, 1:1, or facilitator training
i stand for your bigness
i stand for what you are stepping into
i stand for everything that is possible…for you
i stand for the wet & wealthy version of your Highest Goddess
i won’t entertain your small self stories
& all the reasons you can’t
i won’t believe your distortions
i won’t hear your excuses
i won’t hold those for you
what i will hold…
is your vision
that’s why you should hire me
as your coach & mentor
i will always remind you of your power
…& that you can have it all
ready to OWN your BIGNESS?
dm me for IN THE FLESH Mystery School details