Taking Control In Relationships without "Really" taking control

Jun 03, 2021

Topping from the bottom anyone?

If we want a man to lead, we need to create the SPACE to let him do so!

You’re probably really used to doing it all by yourself...

‍cooking dinner, cleaning, grocery shopping, having your tire fixed, getting gas, fixing the lightbulb

You’ve had to learn to do it all,
& you’ve gotten really good at it!

But never opening up the space to let him lead, means

**he can’t figure out what or where his role is in your life**

Men are the providers & protectors.

They want to DO for us.

If we keep automatically doing the things before he even gets the chance to do it, we’re never going to feel fulfilled because we’ve stopped it before it even started‼

I know…

Giving up control is easier said than done.

But just for second, ask your body how it feels to always be the one figuring it out…

Exhausting, yah?

It’s time to let go & return to trust.

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Every time You Tell Your Man What to Do....

Jun 02, 2021

Emasculating men is a pandemic
A ballsy statement in a pandemic #punseverywhere

Read for a RED HOT TRUTH!

Speaking for him
Ordering his food
Opening our own door
Giving him money
Making him lists
Scheduling date night

We’re cutting their balls off

...and then expecting them to take us into the bedroom & fuck us into a coma

TRUTH: no one wants to fuck their mom

You CAN be both a successful, independent woman & still have the relationship/s you want
BUT

It won’t happen if you are mommying them around during the day

A healthy, dominant man won’t put up with that.

Evoking your submissive archetype is a deeper journey into your feminine expression.

Taboo? Sure.

Deliciously erotic? You bet.

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Disclaimer: this is NOT about gender. Masculine / feminine are polarities - like yin / yong. I work mainly with cis women, in...

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Submission & Empowered Femininity

Jun 01, 2021

Submission & Empowered Femininity

You can be a successful woman & still be a submissive. They can BOTH exist - but not at the same time same place, & especially not in the bedroom.

The deep yearning in our feminine hearts to let go of full control & be taken by our lover, asks us to actually L E T G O! And allow him to lead.

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When They Told You to Become an Independent Woman & Need No Man

Jun 01, 2021

I’m gonna say it

Our fierce independency as women in this modern day world is beautiful

AND

It really doesn’t leave a lot of space for partnership

Relationships are evolving
Gender roles have changed
& the gender binary is now a spectrum

I believe all of this...

I also believe in POLARITY & finding what feels good for YOU, in your body, & your relationships.

For me, and most of the women I meet & work with…

There’s a deep craving for a man to lead

…a yearning to be taken care of & cared for (despite our ability & great success we’ve had in doing it on our own)

Men are the protectors & providers

If we:
constantly take control
always provide for ourselves
call the shots
& tell everyone else what to do

we probably get shit DONE in life & have MAJOR conflict in relationship.

We are fighting for the top with our men

And leave little space for them to come in & fulfill their sacred role.

Men don’t want to compete with their...

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10 things my new tattoos remind me of

May 31, 2021

10 Things these new babies reminded me of...

Tattoos hurt.
Our body can only take so much.
No matter how strong we think we are, there are still things that can hurt us.
Being out of the body is sometimes a great thing.
Every part of our body feels pain, which means every part of our body can feel pleasure.
Social media is extremely distracting.
It’s okay to hug ourselves.
Numbing ourselves to the pain may get us through, but eventually it’ll all sink in, & we’ll need to feel it to heal it.
It feels great to lean on others when we’re at this stage.
The healing process is itchy & uncomfortable, but something beautiful is on the other side.

What was the biggest lesson you learned last week?

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When you think about getting back on hinge

May 29, 2021

Having so much fun with all of these

Delete re-download delete re-download

I’ve had the most fun/luck with @hinge!

I always find gems on there that after a few dates & no clear future, we stay friends

What’s your favorite dating app? (IG counts)

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Triggers in Relationships

May 27, 2021

Re: TRIGGERS IN RELATIONSHIPS

Does it feel like you’re always critiquing your partner? Out loud or in your head?


Like no matter what they do you just keep finding something that bothers / frustrates you?

And they can feel it too?

***WATCH FOR HOW TO CHANGE THIS!***

Note: Triggers...they’re good. Great for healing. That’s when the real work in relationship begins.

But.

I feel like most of us, are not actually w the ‘right’ people (and by right, I mean we tolerate behavior we shouldn’t) and because of this, EMOTIONAL REACTIONS happen (different than triggers) because it’s our Inner Being SCREAMING to get OUT.

P.S. Calling in your ideal partners & Lovers Workshop is Saturday! and LOVE SEX MEN opens for enrollment Saturday too info & sign up in bio

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If you keep attracting the same kind of person over & over again in relationship but thought you did the work..

May 27, 2021

If you keep attracting the same kind of person over & over again in relationship but thought you did the work..

Know you DID do the work

The problem isn’t that the same person with a different face came into your life

It’s that you gave them your number



Every time I’ve said goodbye to a relationship, it’s felt like graduation day‍

Know the feel?

Except, when someone new would come in, they’d have the same qualities as the last one

It was always better...

but it was really just
‘same same but [a little] different’

Ya know?

If you’re looking for something different, you have to CHOOSE & DO different.

You DID & are DOING the work

Keep CHOOSING you & let go of familiar faces

There doesn’t always have to be a REASON the same person came in

*Calling In Your Ideal Partners & Lovers* Workshop happens SATURDAY!

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Happy Eclipse

May 26, 2021

Don’t forget to dance under the moon

I can’t wait for Womb Room (my seasonal moon circle offering!)

I’m taking an astrology course & just started a shaman program & it’s deepening my connection to the elements x seasons even more

Find me on Spotify @juliannevaccaro for my favorite music selections dance & dance 2 are on this frequency

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Talking to Your Best Friend About Boy Problems

May 26, 2021

Ladies! I know it’s REAL easy to bash the men in our lives & talk

...but it’ll never get us what we want‍

If the men we’re in relationship with act like boys & we don’t want to put up with the nonsense, we need to stop waiting for ‘the change’, & realize it’s not on us to support their process (i.e. be the coach, therapist, emotional regulator)

CARRYING them through the work is different than ACTIVATING their self awareness & growth.

There really are no exceptions.

Making change in relationship DOES boil down to you‍

...boundaries + knowing what you are & are NOT available for‍

A QUICKIE [PROCESS]

Make a list of:
1what you ARE available for
2what you ARE NOT available for
in your relationships.

Say goodbye to the ‘are not’ list & burn it, rip it, shred it - don’t save it for safe keeping

Take your ‘are’ list’ & reevaluate your relationships.

Anyone not make the cut? Set your...

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