big knowledge drop...
if you are waiting for the clients and money to appear....
before you invest, you're living in illusion.
it’s kinda like saying….”i’ll be happy when ______” instead of trusting in your capacity to RECEIVE what you’re working so hard to manifest
your true self knows you gotta be happy (or invest) FIRST…& then the partner x the clients x the wealth will come.
[because through that decision you become the version of yourself that’s a magnetic match to your desires]
your small self? i mean…she means well. but she’s only playing in the 3D.
& the magic of who you are doesn’t live there.
shit gets REAL when you start being LOUDER than the fear voice…the societal projections…& the voice of your dear mother who means well but only wants to keeps you comfortable x safe
read my last post for more on what i’m talkin bout
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Read client testimonial HERE
your words touch every part of me
now, all i have to say is … imagine if we actually worked together? yeah. feel that :)
ready to go on a journey with me?
IN THE FLESH Mystery School Facilitator Training is enrolling now.
10 months together. 5 magical in person events.
ready to remember the truth of who you really are to live a life of purpose, power, pleasure, play?
come reclaim body x pu$$y to play WILD x BIG!
& help your people/clients do the same
dm me for the details Goddess
equal parts boujee & earthy
this weekend has been filled with community, sister dates, pleasure practices, inward journeys ….& whole lotta love!
i brag i got to kick off the weekend with Erotic Blueprint coach friends celebrating the release of Sex Love & @goop on @netflix (if you haven’t watched — GET YOUR BOOTY IN FRONT OF THE TV! couldn’t be a better representation of the work i do as a Somatic Sexologist)….
i brag taught an incredible Erotic Blueprint workshop at @cosmicteaholisticshop…thank you @ericaalisonwellness for being my sexy demo …& @elizabeth_fuckinmarie_psychic for hosting (pssst will be hosting an online workshop in the next few weeks )
i brag i’m going to a Sound Healing event tonight!
eee can’t wait to connect!
& tomorrow i have a somatic session with a client! followed by finalizing IN THE FLESH Mystery School details
g r a t i t u d e
p r e s e n...
re: perfectionism & the struggle to orgasm
do you feel like full body pleasure is hard to achieve between the chatter in your head & the difficulty of relaxing into the moment?
i've found a strong thread between those of us that have the...
black & white mondset....the all-or-nothing way of thinking....& perfectionist tendencies.
(also a SHADOW side of the Sensual Erotic Blueprint)
when we're oh so focused on:
the goal + the outcome
the way it should go.
the way it should feel.
the way I should smell.
thewas I should sound.
how long it should/shouldn't take to have an orgasm...
we become further & further away from the pleasure that's available by be-ing on the journey.
....the same pleasure wave that will most likely take us to the orgasm we're after-
but only when we R E L E A S E the pressure of all the 'shoulds'
perfectionist, over-achievers & people pleasers-
LOVE control
control over our bodies, our expressions, how we're...
working with your SEX….is like taking a rocket ship into your soul & soul’s curriculum
ain’t no hiding when you get in between the sheets
>> sex is THE WORK <<
because fuck…
if you’re scared to face #shame for speaking your truth to your friend when you’re fully clothed
…try it when your ass up & tied to the bed post
(talk about ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐)
one of the many reasons I LOVE working with the ๐ฌ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ is because it gives you an understanding of:
YOUR body
YOUR eroticism
AND your partner/s
…like nothing else
when you have language to put to your desires + turn ons & turn offs….hello ecstatic pleasure x deep, fully body orgasms
want to learn more about the ๐ฌ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐?
join me TONIGHT @ @cosmicteaholisticshop at 5 PM MDT!
shoot me a message for the link to sign up!
Watch HERE
do you know your Erotic Blueprint?
knowing your Erotic Blueprint is like having an easy-to-follow roadmap for your sexuality
it's a potent framework that supports you in
....understanding
.....exploring
....& unleashing
your eroticism
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO KNOW THIS?
...gives you language & words to get your needs met (+ meet the needs of your lover(s)
...reveals WHO you are as an erotic being, WHAT to ask for, & HOW to ask for it
...uncovers where you are right now + where you want to be
The 5 Eroic Blueprints
ENERGETIC
if you're an energetic, you probably short circuit if it goes from 0-60 too fast. but with just the right type of light, finger tip, anticipation-filled touch...you're wetter than ever;)
SENSUAL
if you're a sensual, you probably have difficulty getting out of your head no matter how much you try to focus. but when everything is JUST right, like the candles & music, you can really let the fuck go.
KINKY
if...
๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฑ ๐๐ง๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ Workshop is at @cosmicteaholisticshop THIS Friday 10/22 at 5 PM MDT!
we need more PLEASURE now more than ever ;)
you may be thinking
pleasure is the LAST thing on my to-do list right now
how am I supposed to feel pleasure when the world is still in crisis?
i have to do the dishes, laundry, tend to my biz & keep myself sane through all of this. rinse & repeat. no spare time.
i can’t get out of my head enough to sit back & self regulate
i’m covered in fear for the world + i feel ALL of the collective fear x contraction
i don’t even have a sex drive
valid thoughts
AND...
these reasons are WHY we need to amp up our pleasure EVEN MORE!
Sexual release is one of the most efficient & effective ways to reset the nervous system
clients have reported moving through this time with grace, compassion & ease - AND an ability to
make more money
call in ideal clients
have yummy sexy time with their lover x selves
...
‘you never initiate sex or come onto me’ …. said every boyfriend i ever had
this always made me feel so ๐จ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ช๐ก
i felt like less of a woman
it brought up stories that said:
i wasn’t a sexual person
there was something wrong with me
i didn’t know what i was doing
i wasn’t enough
& they were better off with someone else
this happened for TWO REASONS…
1 i didn’t feel ๐ฌ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ or in my sexual expression. i grew up with shame around sex, ๐ง๐๐ก๐๐๐๐ค๐ช๐จ ๐ฅ๐ง๐ค๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ (wrong, dirty), & a lack of sex ed (aka pleasure)
i picked up on societal cues that told me sex was for men’s pleasure…& my body was there to ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ
it left me ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ค...๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐...& ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐
2 i later learned…..i’m a primary Energetic on the Erotic Blueprints (dk yours?! dm me for the quiz link!).
this means i’m:
highly turned on by anticipation, tease, & space.
i need grounding, safety, connection & SLOW anticipatory touch to get me...
Client Testimonial:
Read testimonial HERE
somatic + pleasure work forever changed my life & forever changes my clients lives.
to receive more, we have to feel deeper.
and…everything is experienced through the body first
ready to learn the ancient arts of somatic sexology & body sovereignty?
dm me for where to get started…
i have 3 sexyyyy options available for you: self study, 1:1, or facilitator training
attention DENVER FRIENDS!
before working with the Erotic Blueprints, i felt like my sexuality was a MYSTERY
i didn’t understand why some sex was SO good…& then other times… i just couldn’t turn on (no matter how much I tried)
i didn’t understand why some partners went from 0-100 in a matter of mins while I needed WAY more of a warm up
most of the time…it ended with me **feeling stuck, broken, unsafe, or too complicated to understand**
i RARELY felt fed
& i HATED being asked,
“what do you want?
& “how do you like it?”
because i. did. NOT. know!
& goddess, i hated using my words in the bedroom - i had no voice.
when i learned about the 5 Erotic Blueprints, everythingggg started to make sense
i learned about my superpowers as an Energetic Shapeshifter (one of many = no touch orgasms ;) & getting super turned on by tease x anticipation, not the 0-100 kinda action
i also found out that all of that self criticism was actually...
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