3 years ago, at a tender time in my life & biz development, @rachelbell looked me in the eyes, through zoom obv, & told me,
“You already are & have everything you see in the master coaches you look up to now.”
I’ve carried those words all the way to where I am today
You can create everything you dream of.
You can build it.
You can achieve it.
You can have it all.
just as you are.
Theres no where for you to be or get to in order to make ‘the’ move…
or quit the job
or raise your prices
or attract the ideal partner
or join Blissness x Pleasure :)
You already have all of it within you.
If there’s fear,
know it’s part of the game.
The. Fear. Will. Always. Be. There.
Like I learned in Spiritual Psychology school…
‘It’s not the issue, it’s the way we relate to the issue.’
Your leadership comes in when you feel the fear & parts of you start to freak out when making a...
Having $10k months is great.
Having a partner who cooks for you is great.
Having clients pay you $500 an hour is great.
Having sex that gets you there is great.
Having a friend group that kinda supports you is great.
But you know what’s better?
Letting yourself dream past those glass ceilings & getting everything you want,
& then some.
This was me last year.
And my life was G R E A T.
I was happy.
Happier than I had ever been.
More successful than I had ever been.
But there was a tug from my Higher Self whispering, “there’s SO much more than this, Julianne.”
So I listened.
I broke up with the ‘perfect partner’ at the start of the pandemic.
I ditched the parts of my biz that were holding me back from the next iteration.
I moved out of an apartment that made me happy.
I doubled my rates.
I said adios to people that served their purpose but didn’t feel good anymore.
I let go of what was great…
to make space for something BEYOND.
It. Was. S C A R Y.
Watch here -
I created Blissness x Pleasure Mastermind because I wanted to birth something that was a combination of somatics with business & pleasure.
Something that took my proven method that has helped myself & my clients make more money than ever before, & scale to 6 figures in less than 8 months, & do it in a loving, GROUP community.
Business can & should be pleasurable.
It’s a fast track for growth.
Entrepreneurs KNOW this.
But instead of running around in circles, trying to figure it out from logic, I created B x P to cut out the bullshit.
So you can scale your online biz into next level bigness & expand your capacity to receive.
Client conversations have been filled with 𝗳𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝘅𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗮𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗲 as they step deeper & deeper into their power, potential, abundance
Ever feel that way?
...getting burned for your bigness?
...fear of taking up the spotlight?
...not wanting to be too much or too loud?
(I think we’ve all given & received this hurt)
I’m reminded in these conversations,
that leadership takes 𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙖𝙜𝙚
The courage to face the fire
Playing big doesn’t come without risk
You’re going to be made wrong
There will be pressure to change your truth
And all of it,
is an invitation into higher levels of
Leadership & Embodiment
in what » Y O U « Know to be true
You’re a wild, dramatic, woman
You’re ALLOWED to be
It’s drool worthy
& such a damn turn on
Your power is 𝙨𝙤 needed
It’s filled with GOODness
Know that standing in your bigness
will turn people away
But they’re not your people
Owning your power & speaking your truth,
will call in the ones who are...
Don’t you know you’re...
worth more than that?
Don’t you know you’re...
Don’t you tell all your friends how you’re “too good” for a man that treats you less than royalty?
But here we are, all of a sudden, thinking it’s “too expensive” & “too much”
Boo, you are too much.
You are worth TOO MUCH.
And you should be getting PAID big money for that.
When I hear that number - and it’s more than I’ve ever paid before - my body gets the tingles
Investing has less to do with the mentor or offering,
& more to do with the value we put into ourselves
It’s there for our own *level up*
...for us to energetically invest it ALL
...to leave the excuses & fears at the last level
The smaller we play in our investments, the smaller we play in our growth game
It’s just the energetics
And the game of money
Note: there’s privilege in this. I’m a white, cis hetero, able bodied female.
Last year, I took a Queer Competency course with @embodyemerge, in addition to other DEI work.
I committed myself, at a personal & business level.
When I first started, especially getting into rooms with marginalized communities, there was a lot of discomfort, shame, guilt & wanting to avoid.
I stood stuck for a while, not wanting to expand, talk about money, wealth or success.
While I understood at a conscious level, that...
We want the exact script, framework, practice…
but when it comes to flow,
there is no exact anything!
Our B O D Y is the guide,
& it changes everyday.
Part of my Embodied Launch protocol (part of Blissness x Pleasure Method) is starting each day with a movement practice
Just like this one^
It’s not always perfect...
Sometimes I don’t want to do it
Sometimes I don’t do it
Sometimes I do it midday or @ night
Sometimes I drop right in
Sometimes there’s resistance
Sometimes I don’t want it to end
Regardless, it allows me to:
xx move stuck energy
xx go beyond the stories of my mind
xx feel into the truth of my body
xx get into my feel good place
xx step into my pleasure
This supports me in being magnetic to what I’m calling in because my channels are crystal clear
Q: How does having an embodied movement practice support you?
4 days left for B x P enrollment!
P.S. I say this is ‘easy yet advanced’, because it’s a simple process to follow, but...
This time last year I had a conversation with my coach about collaborating with other women
She was encouraging me to put down my independence a little bit more, to share my spaces with other wisdom givers & light workers
At the time, partnership wasn’t yet fully safe for me
Looking back, I know it was rooted in fear of attachment, trust, & intimacy
I was just dipping my toes in the pond,
& I’m now I’m fully swimming :)
@amylea.co read my astro/HD chart last summer & reflected the opening for deep healing around professional relationships & collabs
Since then, I’ve grown my team into a solid interconnected web of 5 (+ we’ll be hiring soon!)
& I’ve been bringing incredible women into my coaching containers to amplify the magic
For this round of B x P, we’ll have 4 guest speakers sharing their expertise with the group:
Claudia Nanino » Conscious Breathwork
Jessica Siren » Voice Activation
I held a lot of resentment in my body towards routine & structure.
It was a mirror of the internal resentment I was holding towards (1) men, & (2) the rejection of the goodness, & the need for, masculine energy (& also good men) in my life.
I was hell bent on not integrating form
I tried & tried, but it kept getting harder & harder
I name this here because it was an integral part of my biz journey
My stubborn refusal to bring in my inner father, brother, lover, friend...
He who teaches how to befriend the Self, first & foremost, & then organically, everyone else
(Maps to Ecstasy by Gabrielle Roth is a great read for this)
We grow far when we integrate these polarities
…yin x yong…
It’s the dance of the universe
And integration comes from the Latin word integrare meaning, “make whole”.
Create freedom in your body x biz & harmonize your masc & fem to level the f up in biz x bed x bank with the proven Blissness & Pleasure...