(follower count down)
This used to scare me…
xx Not having them like me
xx Saying the wrong thing
xx Being too much
xx Not being for everyone
But I’m not for everyone.
And neither are you.
Shutting the door to our authentic expression closes the channel to our magnetism & receptivity.
I can revel in this truth now.
It excites me.
It turns me on.
Because I know I’m activating something in them.
And whether they look at it or not,
it stirred something.
And I L O V E that.
Whether they choose me or not,
it doesn’t affect me.
Nor is it a reflection of my character.
While this in theory is easy,
it’s not the easiest to put into action.
Discomfort can arise in our body.
Rejection, abandonment & betrayal wounds come to the surface.
Our attachment styles activate & reactions seemingly come out of nowhere.
This is when it’s most important to stay in our bodies & ride the wave of emotion x feeling.
There’s information there.
It lives in...
You Can Have It All
(it even says this at the top of my website)
Let’s stop choosing between *this or that*
We don’t need to sacrifice or settle
We don’t have to choose between a limited life in one area to have a big life in the other
It’s not this OR that
It’s this AND that
I grew up in NY, where success = sacrifice
*The man* taught me happiness wasn’t part of the equation
And now I have a man that won’t let me settle for anything less than all of it
God didn’t put you here to give you an endless flow of desire
just to say
“now suffer ‘cause you can’t have it”
“I’m gonna punish you when you get it because it’s too good to be true”
Organized religion loves to overplay that story
“Jesus, make me worthy.”
You already are
Whether you’re disciplined or undisciplined
F*cking or not f*cking
Like Mary Magdalene said,
“I am the Whore & the Holy one.”
it’s about leading from love
Last week I was reflecting on marketing x sales dynamics…
When I first wrote the B x P landing page,
I came in kinda hot, hard & heavy
My team & fav humans reflected that
& I made my adjustments
The connection between relationships & biz shows up in how we present & sell ourselves
If we’re hitting them over the head with
the things they do wrong,
the things they never do,
& how they never get it right
» they’ll never get it right «
(at least not with us)
I used to do this with men
In my relationship now, there’s lots of re-patterning happening
...always lead with love...
Respect & love have to be the baseline
On a podcast interview with @relatingintheshadows, @rainierwylde asked me what the healthy fem looks like
My answer was simple: she leads in Love
My work with my submissive archetype, showed me more of how the heart of a man works:
Growing my biz to multi 6 fig, has taught me a lot about the relationship between form x flow, masc x fem, logic x intuition, control x surrender
These polarities have become a powerful tool for me to increase my revenue, client base & product suite, while enjoying MORE play x pleasure
When I first took my biz fully online 3 years ago, I was a one woman team
I hit 6 figs in just over 6 months & didn’t change much when I got to that level
In my personal life, I was doing massive reorganizing. I had just completed a somatic sexology healing program that supported me in stepping into my fullness, & as a byproduct, 4x my income
Over the following year, I joined a MM to support the level of growth I was having bc I honestly didn’t know what to do with that kind of expansion
The $$ I had always dreamed of was flowing in, my ideal clients were filling up my calendar, & my methodology was getting deeper x wider
As I continued to step deeper into my fem,...
I used to know this all too well
» Bouncing [hard] between doing x being
» Going from low energy/motivation to high states of excitement/go go go
» Finding yourself burnt out after days of overworking
» Feeling resistance to structure when you need to get back to producing
» Working all day, feeling ‘on’ all the time, but not getting any of the important stuff done
» Filled with distractions by the small tasks (I.e. emails, social, texts, trying to get back to everyone)
» Anxiety & overwhelm that lead to wanting to do nothing in an avoidant way
» Unhealthy habits (i.e. stress & emotional eating, relying on substance, toxic relationships)
» Cyclical seasons of ‘trust in the process’ to ‘overwhelm x overanalyzing’
» Feeling unbalanced in your body & biz
» No pleasure or play (or even the...
I’ll also be sharing secret insights I’ve uncovered in my own life recently, that have helped me expand in ways I couldn’t have imagined.
These won’t be shared with anyone else outside of this workshop ;)
Convergence will allow you to master your inner masculine & feminine so you no longer feel divided in your life or biz.
P.S. if you want a taste of Blissness x Pleasure Mastermind - I’d highly recommend attending this Masterclass!
The CEO who handles her team & tasks XX the submissive who likes to surrender all control in relationship & s3x
The emotionally in touch wombxn XX the shy, ‘oohh! this is vulnerable’ sharer
The feminine flowy goddess who feels pleasure in every movement & step XX the warrior who knows how to claim her domain & fight off intruders
The money making cash magnet XX the pay it forward give backer
The kind, soft, humble, embodied leader XX the fierce, spicey reflector of ego stories
The adrenaline junkie who loves the thrill x risk XX a tender heart in the night, cuddling in the nook of their lover
The passion filled, loyal, respectful partner
XX the promiscuous wild womxn who likes more than two in the bedroom
The strong focused athlete XX the voluptuous dancer riding the wave of every note
The giver XX the receiver
The selfless XX self serving
The angel XX the slut
The whore XX the holy
The masculine XX the feminine
The yin XX the yang
The God XX the Goddess
The King XX the...
Earlier in the week, I gave this brilliant 23 year old woman — who made a deliciously big investment with me into Somatic Embodiment coaching (she’s rising fast!) — permission to connect with her wild woman & R A G E, big time.
I even told her to write ‘fuck you’ letters to her mom & her body.
This might seem backwards to you. But the animal is there inside, whether or not it’s acknowledged ;)
This part of us, holds an immense amount of 𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗱 𝗲𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆 & 𝗽𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗹.
“It felt great. After writing the letters, I was able to go in & clear entities that have prevented me & my mom from being able to communicate on a healthy level.”
“That’s huge! It’s been there for years. I haven’t known how to get rid of that until now. Holy shit! Celebrating that. Now I’m feeling lighter & can move into gratitude.”
Accepting, allowing, & owning our W I L D opens 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙢𝙖𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙤𝙧𝙨.
Do you think space & freedom, or sacrifice & chaos?
There’s a way to scale your business the E R O T I C infused way $
Don’t get me wrong, it’s not always a sandy bum & wildlife
There is work to be done
Systems to get in place
& strategies to implement
But it doesn’t have to be dry, hard or bumpy ;)
The Blissness x Pleasure Method is a smooth, silky path to scaling your biz while having freedom & space to focus on the stuff you really want to be doing
Whether it’s more creation or more orgasms...
or both :)
B x P supports you with the tangible tools to step into your next level bigness with p*ssy guided wisdom & embodied leadership
This method has taken myself & clients to multiple 6 figures in less than 8 months.
A mastermind for badass femme identifying biz owners, who have created their success, & 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗱 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 in their 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙥𝙤𝙡𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙮.
You’re ready to flip the script,
& 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙨𝙤𝙛𝙩, 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 < 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 > 𝙘𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧.
She wants more, more, more! & you’re ready to give it to her the 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒚, 𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒆 way.
You’re the 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗲𝗻,
but for some reason,
you 𝙙𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢 you want on the inside.
You know there are 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆,
keeping you 𝙨𝙩𝙪𝙘𝙠 at this level.
You want to unclog your system
for more space, time & love in your life.
You want to EXPAND!
In every area, every realm.
…especially your biz x body x sex…
You want to:
HAVE IT ALL, no sacrificing or settling.
𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐞 & 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞.
(Don’t worry, you still get to have
ALL the 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵, 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝘅 𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗵𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆)
You want 𝘀𝗮𝗳𝗲𝘁𝘆 in your body.
And you’re ready to go from
Business to Blissness.