working with your SEX….is like taking a rocket ship into your soul & soul’s curriculum
ain’t no hiding when you get in between the sheets
>> sex is THE WORK <<
if you’re scared to face #shame for speaking your truth to your friend when you’re fully clothed
…try it when your ass up & tied to the bed post
(talk about 𝐕𝐔𝐋𝐍𝐄𝐑𝐀𝐁𝐈𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐘)
one of the many reasons I LOVE working with the 𝑬𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝑩𝒍𝒖𝒆𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒔 is because it gives you an understanding of:
AND your partner/s
…like nothing else
when you have language to put to your desires + turn ons & turn offs….hello ecstatic pleasure x deep, fully body orgasms
want to learn more about the 𝑬𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝑩𝒍𝒖𝒆𝒑𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒔?
join me TONIGHT @ @cosmicteaholisticshop at 5 PM MDT!
shoot me a message for the link to sign up!
re: perfectionism & the struggle to orgasm
do you feel like full body pleasure is hard to achieve between the chatter in your head & the difficulty of relaxing into the moment?
i've found a strong thread between those of us that have the...
black & white mondset....the all-or-nothing way of thinking....& perfectionist tendencies.
(also a SHADOW side of the Sensual Erotic Blueprint)
when we're oh so focused on:
the goal + the outcome
the way it should go.
the way it should feel.
the way I should smell.
thewas I should sound.
how long it should/shouldn't take to have an orgasm...
we become further & further away from the pleasure that's available by be-ing on the journey.
....the same pleasure wave that will most likely take us to the orgasm we're after-
but only when we R E L E A S E the pressure of all the 'shoulds'
perfectionist, over-achievers & people pleasers-
control over our bodies, our expressions, how we're...
do you know your Erotic Blueprint?
knowing your Erotic Blueprint is like having an easy-to-follow roadmap for your sexuality
it's a potent framework that supports you in
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO KNOW THIS?
...gives you language & words to get your needs met (+ meet the needs of your lover(s)
...reveals WHO you are as an erotic being, WHAT to ask for, & HOW to ask for it
...uncovers where you are right now + where you want to be
The 5 Eroic Blueprints
if you're an energetic, you probably short circuit if it goes from 0-60 too fast. but with just the right type of light, finger tip, anticipation-filled touch...you're wetter than ever;)
if you're a sensual, you probably have difficulty getting out of your head no matter how much you try to focus. but when everything is JUST right, like the candles & music, you can really let the fuck go.
‘you never initiate sex or come onto me’ …. said every boyfriend i ever had
this always made me feel so 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙛𝙪𝙡
i felt like less of a woman
it brought up stories that said:
i wasn’t a sexual person
there was something wrong with me
i didn’t know what i was doing
i wasn’t enough
& they were better off with someone else
this happened for TWO REASONS…
1 i didn’t feel 𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 or in my sexual expression. i grew up with shame around sex, 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙢𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 (wrong, dirty), & a lack of sex ed (aka pleasure)
i picked up on societal cues that told me sex was for men’s pleasure…& my body was there to 𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲
it left me 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐜𝐤...𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐝...& 𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝
2 i later learned…..i’m a primary Energetic on the Erotic Blueprints (dk yours?! dm me for the quiz link!).
this means i’m:
highly turned on by anticipation, tease, & space.
i need grounding, safety, connection & SLOW anticipatory touch to get me...
𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐁𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐱 𝐔𝐧𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 Workshop is at @cosmicteaholisticshop THIS Friday 10/22 at 5 PM MDT!
we need more PLEASURE now more than ever ;)
you may be thinking
pleasure is the LAST thing on my to-do list right now
how am I supposed to feel pleasure when the world is still in crisis?
i have to do the dishes, laundry, tend to my biz & keep myself sane through all of this. rinse & repeat. no spare time.
i can’t get out of my head enough to sit back & self regulate
i’m covered in fear for the world + i feel ALL of the collective fear x contraction
i don’t even have a sex drive
these reasons are WHY we need to amp up our pleasure EVEN MORE!
Sexual release is one of the most efficient & effective ways to reset the nervous system
clients have reported moving through this time with grace, compassion & ease - AND an ability to
make more money
call in ideal clients
have yummy sexy time with their lover x selves
attention DENVER FRIENDS!
before working with the Erotic Blueprints, i felt like my sexuality was a MYSTERY
i didn’t understand why some sex was SO good…& then other times… i just couldn’t turn on (no matter how much I tried)
i didn’t understand why some partners went from 0-100 in a matter of mins while I needed WAY more of a warm up
most of the time…it ended with me **feeling stuck, broken, unsafe, or too complicated to understand**
i RARELY felt fed
& i HATED being asked,
“what do you want?
& “how do you like it?”
because i. did. NOT. know!
& goddess, i hated using my words in the bedroom - i had no voice.
when i learned about the 5 Erotic Blueprints, everythingggg started to make sense
i learned about my superpowers as an Energetic Shapeshifter (one of many = no touch orgasms ;) & getting super turned on by tease x anticipation, not the 0-100 kinda action
i also found out that all of that self criticism was actually...
Read testimonial HERE
somatic + pleasure work forever changed my life & forever changes my clients lives.
to receive more, we have to feel deeper.
and…everything is experienced through the body first
ready to learn the ancient arts of somatic sexology & body sovereignty?
dm me for where to get started…
i have 3 sexyyyy options available for you: self study, 1:1, or facilitator training
i stand for your bigness
i stand for what you are stepping into
i stand for everything that is possible…for you
i stand for the wet & wealthy version of your Highest Goddess
i won’t entertain your small self stories
& all the reasons you can’t
i won’t believe your distortions
i won’t hear your excuses
i won’t hold those for you
what i will hold…
is your vision
that’s why you should hire me
as your coach & mentor
i will always remind you of your power
…& that you can have it all
ready to OWN your BIGNESS?
dm me for IN THE FLESH Mystery School details
the very thing you are scared of.... is the very thing that will set you free.
every single woman i meet & coach (myself included)
is deeply intimidated by her DESIRES... & POWER (at first)
the reasons you keep holding yourself back from pulling the trigger & signing up....
is not because you're scared of the shadow of what could arise from the darkness
it's actually because you're so in your KNOWING of your Absolute Power & Infinite Abundance
that it becomes A LOT to RECEIVE
it's a LOT on your nervous system
which is why...WE DON'T.... & literally cannot....DO IT ALONE
we NEED co regulation on this journey
we need somatic practices to breakthrough
i hope this empowers you to trust in YOUR desires...
even when the 'fuckkkkkkkkkk this is scary' comes in
this could be the start .... or the next step....
of being more connected to your Truth
if you're ready to take the deep dive with me...
'cause you know the benefit of being up close & personal with...
living a pussy oriented life....
does NOT mean you're always dripping in pleasure & orgasms
being the creatrix of your life & following your pussy truths...
NO MATTER WHAT
[or who's watching]
even if it means:
>>walking away from a client that wants to pay you because it's not aligned
>>leaving relationships just because you choose different
>>investing when it's scary af
...just because Pussy said so!
THAT"S living a pussy driven life
it's about TRUTH
& Intentionally transmuting what your small self deems as ordinary & boring & not aligned...
to orgasmic ecstasy & purpose
(get off on every stroke)
it's taking the SHIT & making it GOLD
with the swirl of your hips + the smack of your lips
...that's the work of the Goddess...
she is leading you to something you cannot see with your human eyes
that’s the whole thing about it…