when you know you can create something... ( i.e. wealth, clients, partnership, next level leadership)
& you say you reallyyyyy want ti
but it;s not showing up...
it's probably because you're not showing up
...to the commitment the next level is asking of you
if you’re constantly beating yourself up for not being where you *know* you can be in biz + life….this one’s for you
i’d read this one to the end…if you like free coaching
throughout the enrollment process for IN THE FLESH…the biggest thing i’ve heard is INDECISION
‘i need to feel into it’
‘i’m going to sit with it’
‘i’m gonna check in with my womb’
as we dig deeper
the FEAR living underneath
ALWAYS reveals itself
(if you let yourself explore that, you’ll see that at a certain point ‘sitting with it’ is just avoiding a decision)
HERE’S WHAT I’VE GOT FOR YOU:
if you were REALLY...
indecision x pu$$y
she may lead you to places & people & things that make you nauseous
nauseous at the challenge it gives you
know it’s for your highest good…& rise to the challenge
your bleeding yourself dry with the indecision…& draining your precious energy
Watch Video HERE
are you in a place of “I WANT THIS” with IN THE FLESH but simultaneously feel hesitation & fear in your body?
maybe there’s thoughts like:
“ i need more foundation first.”
“i know i don’t need to know the how…but I can’t see the how.”
“i’m a content junkie & promised myself i wouldn’t do another program for awhile.”
“i need to have this *in order/complete/sorted out* before I do this.”
“am i really ready for this??”
if you’re feeling any of this is
my invitation for you
is to get out of your head
& back into your body
the rest is noise
what would happen…
what would become available…
if you made decisions by following the FEELING of expansion?
the turn on of your pxssy?
the possibility of a new narrative?
if you sit with pu$$y
& really let yourself FEEL her
she will weed out the noise
& give you the courage to...
Spiritual Women Navigating Spiritual Trash
workshop happening tomorrow night at 5 PM mountain time at @cosmicteaholisticshop - if you are not local to Denver we are streaming the workshop live so you don’t miss a beat.
boundaries, how to have hard conversations, how to stay open and protected…& lots more!
message me for the link to enroll - it’s not listed on my website or my linktree
NOTE: the investment for the workshop goes up to $222 on sunday. make sure you enroll now even if you’re grabbing the replay
how do you be a $exually liberated woman in a nonconsensual world?
how do you know WHO to TRUST?
how do you stay OPEN & PROTECTED?
how do you know who is rlly in their integrity?
i’ve yet to meet a woman UNAFFECTED by our patriarchal misogynist culture
…who has lived a life FREE from $exual assault/ cat calling/ inappropriate projections + actions towards her body
even for those of us who have ‘never had trauma’ - do in fact have trauma around this subject
i have been in MANY abusive relationships in my life
from emotional to physical abuse
a nonconsensual pregnancy
multiple leaders who have crossed boundaries in a way that indicates - this is FAR from the 1st time
a lot of it had to do w my unresolved childhood trauma & souls curriculum
but a lot of it also had to do w my open heart, my belief in the GOOD of humanity, my knowing that people CAN change, my TRUST in humans that have held powerful positions of leadership
over the last few yrs
i have dived deep into...
you're not setting boundaries because 'you're an empath & care about the other person's feelings'
you're not setting boundaries because you're *not caring for yourself*
choosing ourselves is not always the easy choice
we think being 'there' - healed, clear, free - means decisions become simple & straightforward...
& while they can be, they're not always the path of least resistance.
we might have the awareness...but we still need to follow our Truth.
there's stuff to deal with & address on BOTH sides...
xx the decision to stay in an unhealthy pattern is hard.
xx the decision to let go of that comfortable unhealthy pattern is hard.
choosing ourselves is often choosing to let go of something.
... an identity, a people pleasing behavior we've had for years, a trauma response we picked up as a child, a person who no longer serves us...
finally choosing ourselves is like looking...
my heart is heavy today
as i heal from a major violation
from a dear mentor
who has shown me their shadow
are hot topics in my world
especially as i bring
IN THE FLESH Mystery School
a facilitator training
i’ve been in the coaching industry for over a decade
& i’ve invested somewhere around 400k in mentors
i’ve experienced many humans in this space…from different backgrounds, identities, locations, ways of life, genders, orientations, etc.
the truth remains…
that at the end of the day
we are all human
& the dark
lives in every single one of us
even when we’ve looked at it
made friends with it
it’s still there within us
when we hold the position of *leader*
we hold a higher level of responsibility
we must have unshakable integrity
it’s a non negotiable
we can still fuck up
& make mistakes
it’s gonna happen
…we are human, alas
but those mistakes...
i test positive for HSV-1
& so does 2/3 of the population under 5 years of age
note: the statistics are often inaccurate when it comes to viruses:)
...because they can lay dormant & many of us are asymptomatic
it’s hard to know how i/we/any of us have contracted…bc viruses are tricky little things
but my story goes like this
i was rope tied…face down…w a man i deeply trusted to keep me safe in a dom/sub setting
however, in the heat of the moment, for whatever reason
he decided not to use a condom, going against all consent conversations
i was NOT aware
bc i was deep in subspace, w my face pressed into the bed
around a week later…i had my first outbreak & tested positive for HSV-1
i called this man, a deeply trusted figure in the Mens’ Coaching Space - a man that ‘stands’ for integrity, honesty & truth - a man that teaches consent, boundaries x kink
“did you use a condom?”
he said, “no”
@juliannevaccaro is back and this time with her; 𝓢𝓹𝓲𝓻𝓲𝓽𝓾𝓪𝓵 𝓦𝓸𝓶𝓮𝓷 Navigating 𝓢𝓹𝓲𝓻𝓲𝓽𝓾𝓪𝓵 𝑻𝑹𝑨𝑺𝑯 workshop!
Are you out here navigating the dating/finding a lover/partner/pleasure scene? Have you experienced “spiritual” people that have left you feeling like WTF?!
You don’t have to navigate this alone babeJoin Julianne exploring with you topics on integrity, having hard conversations, boundaries - how to stay safe & protected while having an open sexuality
Julianne Vaccaro is a Somatic Sexologist, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, & a Women's Spiritual Mentor. She is the creatrix of the Goddess Approach™ methodology combining Holistic Health, Spiritual Psychology & Embodiment Work. She works with powerful, purpose driven women to self heal, reclaim their erotic goddess, & come home to their bodies. With over a decade of experience, her clients transform from feeling stuck & unsafe in their body, to a life of freedom, pleasure, power &...
there are 5 Erotic Blueprint types
5 states & stages of your sexuality
4 obstacles or pathways to optimal sexual health & pleasure
it’s not too late to join the 𝐄𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐁𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐱 𝐔𝐧𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 workshop happening today!
you’ve prob binged the @goop series by now & are ready to go deeper into the blueprint framework to discover….
who you are as an erotic being + what to ask for + how to ask for it
learning about the blueprints
experiencing the blueprints in our bodies
your turn ons / turn offs
how to fell satisfied in your sex life
how to please yourself + partners in their blueprint language
the 5 states & stages of your $exuality
4 obstacles/ pathways to optimal sexual heath & pleasure
i’ll also be doing a demo with my man @pd215 LIVE!
if you have no idea what the Blueprints are…
read previous posts & watch Sex Love & @goop...