Squirt Workshop is on Tues 2/28!
Last week on my story Q & A’s (view highlight to see what goes on!)
i had a lot questions about squirting…like is it pleasurable or is it just for show?!
this week i’m busting 4 common squirt myths & will be diving deep in the *Squirt Workshop* next week
want to learn the what, why, & how of squirting?!
Squirt Myth #1
It's not real
Busting Myth # 1
it is real
there are 2 different kinds of fluids
squirting and female ejaculate/amrita
when i take a step back…& breatheee in everything 2021 has brought me…it almost doesn’t seem real /// it feels like i’ve been living this for the last 4 years in the quantum
do you know what i mean?!
…when you want something so bad, do the inner work to achieve/receive - detach, let go of expectations, quit waiting for it to arrive to play at your desired level, live in the reality of ‘it already is’, & stay in devotion to your ultimate desires…
when it finally comes…
you’re like, ‘oh! there you are! i’ve been playing with you for a long time in my dreams!’
i met my man in the beginning of January after 4 hardcore years of healing + unraveling the story of abuse/love that’s existed in my life since childhood
(check previous posts /@trppodcast for my full story)
all around costa rica
telluride & all...
losing desire and relationship and how to get it back
2 things we’re covering today
1. have you ever been in a relationship where the sex stops
your partner desire's dips
you feel undesired
& all your turn on is gone
2. Having a partner or lover be the best lover and feeling like these really high orgasmic states are not achievable without them
HOW to change this & get your desire back
the way a man treats your pu$$y is probably the way he’s going to treat you in every other area of your life
if he’s not thorough down there, he probably won’t be too thorough anywhere else
if he tends to your needs & listens to your requests, he’s probably doing the same thing out there in the world
THE WAY WE SHOW UP IN THE BEDROOM, IS THE WAY WE SHOW UP EVERYWHERE ELSE IN LIFE!
it can be EASY to sit on this side & blame the reason why we’re not *well fucked* on our men
but the truth is…
IT IS OUR RESPONSIBILITY
the way WE show up in the bedroom is the way WE show up everywhere else in life!
if you DON’T like what’s happening when he’s down there, do you speak up?
if you LIKE what’s happening when he’s down there, do you speak up?
we need to use our VOICE to ask for what we want!
we are responsible for our sexual experience just as much as all our other experiences!
we need to self explore;
i remember being on t0p of a lover somewhere around 4 years back….when he asked me this Q for the first time….& let me tell you….i FROZE for a COUNTABLE amount of seconds….
i was flooded with a milli different things i COULD say….but none of them were really coming from what my pu$$y wanted….
instead i went into…
“what does HE want to hear?!”
“how do i say it in a SEXY way?!”
“and wait…what the fuck do i actually even WANT right now?!”
EVER HAPPEN TO YOU?!
when this comes up for clients, i recommend a few things:
(bookmark these tools for home practice)
if you’re IN the moment…
i know, it’s vulnerable. but that = INTIMACY & CONNECTION. which is what you really want @ the end of the day. NOT communicating what’s real for you in the moment, 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐤, & your 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚 𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞. besides, the draw back can be felt 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐰𝐚𝐲! allow...
Re: Getting shit done in life & having major conflict in relationship
Is usually ‘easily solved,’ when we start taking off our ceo hat BEFORE getting in front of our partners.
I say ‘easily solved’ because it’s still a practice of leading in love & opening up vulnerably.
A practice of the heart.
The most courageous of them all.
To continue to open up after heartbreak, loss, rejection, abandonment & disappointment.
That’s why the pay off is just as high as the low is low.
It’s a heroines journey to get back up again & chose Love.
Worth every break though - don’t you agree?
Worth every risk too - yeah?
I’m dripping in excitement to lead the women inside LOVE SEX MEN through a journey of forgiveness, devotion & surrender. Their first module drops in 2 weeks! Reach out if you want in on the relationship upgrades
“unworthy of motherhood”
one of the *many* reasons women don’t reclaim their sexuality is because they are afraid of THIS.
…being attacked, rejected, abandoned
…their closest friends cutting them out
…partners calling them names
…the church turning their back
all due to the fucked up misconception of what it means to be a sexually liberated woman.
my insides boil when i read these comments.
i want to go to war when i hear these things.
not for me.
& not because i want to fight, nevertheless in a war against ignorance.
but because i know just how many women are out there, right now, SUFFERING because of THIS.
sister, i fight for you everyday.
& i KNOW you’re fighting for me.
we fight the patriarchy & support the REBELLION every time we feel the fear & do it anyway.
every time we want to close but choose to OPEN.
every time we have an ORGA$M.
every time we make a dollar.
every time we RISE in our work.
every time we SPEAK our truth.
Owning Your MUCHNESS & Letting Go Of What Other People Think
…a coaching moment from my 8 week program LOVE SEX MEN!
ready to work together? here’s how to get in on the alchemy
1 Becoming Your Own Best Lover Workshop Series w/ @jessica.sirena…..this SATURDAY 9/18!
Links in bio.
2 IN THE FLESH MYSTERY SCHOOL!
my facilitator training for women who want to expand themselves & toolbox in somatics, sexuality, embodiment & the GoddessApproach™
the only details i can tell you is it’s 10 months, 5 in-person weekends, + a ton of content in between
Send me a DM for details.
3 i have a few last spots left for 1:1 Somatic Coaching & Mentorship…..for high level women ready to reclaim their body & pu$$y to play wild & big! the possibilities are INFINITE
you see where i started.
you see what i’ve created.
i can’t wait to help support you in creating a turned on life filled with pleasure, purpose, power & play.
YOU CAN HAVE...
making sounds can bring up all the shtuffffff…
fear of being too much
fear of being too loud
fear of sounding stupid
fear of making the wrong sound
[all impossible btw ]
but baby girl, making sounds moves the ENERGY
…and that’s the stuff that gives you the breakthrough to FREEDOM
+ high levels of ecstatic orga$mic pleasure #YUM
Join me & voice expert @jessica.sirena this Saturday for Becoming Your Own Best Lover workshop series — come make sounds with your sisters
dm me for the link to sign up!