do you know your Erotic Blueprint?

Oct 21, 2021

do you know your Erotic Blueprint?

knowing your Erotic Blueprint is like having an easy-to-follow roadmap for your sexuality

it's a potent framework that supports you in



....& unleashing 

your eroticism

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO KNOW THIS? you language & words to get your needs met (+ meet the needs of your lover(s)

...reveals  WHO you are as an erotic being, WHAT to ask for, & HOW to ask for it

...uncovers where you are right now + where you want to be

The 5 Eroic Blueprints


if you're an energetic, you probably short circuit if it goes from 0-60 too fast. but with just the right type of light, finger tip, anticipation-filled're wetter than ever;)


if you're a sensual, you probably have difficulty getting out of your head no matter how much you try to focus. but when everything is JUST right, like the candles & music, you can really let the fuck go. 



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โ€˜you never initiate sex or come onto meโ€™ โ€ฆ. said every boyfriend i ever had

Oct 20, 2021

‘you never initiate sex or come onto me’ …. said every boyfriend i ever had

this always made me feel so ๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ข๐™š๐™›๐™ช๐™ก

i felt like less of a woman

it brought up stories that said:
i wasn’t a sexual person
there was something wrong with me
i didn’t know what i was doing
i wasn’t enough
& they were better off with someone else

this happened for TWO REASONS…

1 i didn’t feel ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ or in my sexual expression. i grew up with shame around sex, ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™œ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™œ๐™ง๐™–๐™ข๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ (wrong, dirty), & a lack of sex ed (aka pleasure)

i picked up on societal cues that told me sex was for men’s pleasure…& my body was there to ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ

it left me ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค...๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ž๐...& ๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐

2 i later learned…..i’m a primary Energetic on the Erotic Blueprints (dk yours?! dm me for the quiz link!).

this means i’m:
highly turned on by anticipation, tease, & space.
i need grounding, safety, connection & SLOW anticipatory touch to get me...

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โ €Sexual release is one of the most efficient & effective ways to reset the nervous system

Oct 20, 2021

๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐œ ๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ž๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฑ ๐”๐ง๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐’๐ž๐ฑ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ Workshop is at @cosmicteaholisticshop THIS Friday 10/22 at 5 PM MDT!

we need more PLEASURE now more than ever ;)

you may be thinking
pleasure is the LAST thing on my to-do list right now
how am I supposed to feel pleasure when the world is still in crisis?
i have to do the dishes, laundry, tend to my biz & keep myself sane through all of this. rinse & repeat. no spare time.
i can’t get out of my head enough to sit back & self regulate
i’m covered in fear for the world + i feel ALL of the collective fear x contraction
i don’t even have a sex drive

valid thoughts


these reasons are WHY we need to amp up our pleasure EVEN MORE!
Sexual release is one of the most efficient & effective ways to reset the nervous system

clients have reported moving through this time with grace, compassion & ease - AND an ability to
make more money
call in ideal clients
have yummy sexy time with their lover x selves

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Client Testimonial

Oct 19, 2021


Client Testimonial:

Read testimonial HERE 

somatic + pleasure work forever changed my life & forever changes my clients lives.

to receive more, we have to feel deeper.

and…everything is experienced through the body first

ready to learn the ancient arts of somatic sexology & body sovereignty?

dm me for where to get started…

i have 3 sexyyyy options available for you: self study, 1:1, or facilitator training

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before working with the Erotic Blueprints, i felt like my sexuality was a MYSTERY

Oct 19, 2021


before working with the Erotic Blueprints, i felt like my sexuality was a MYSTERY

i didn’t understand why some sex was SO good…& then other times… i just couldn’t turn on (no matter how much I tried)

i didn’t understand why some partners went from 0-100 in a matter of mins while I needed WAY more of a warm up

most of the time…it ended with me **feeling stuck, broken, unsafe, or too complicated to understand**

i RARELY felt fed

& i HATED being asked,
“what do you want?
& “how do you like it?”
because i. did. NOT. know!

& goddess, i hated using my words in the bedroom - i had no voice.

when i learned about the 5 Erotic Blueprints, everythingggg started to make sense

i learned about my superpowers as an Energetic Shapeshifter (one of many = no touch orgasms ;) & getting super turned on by tease x anticipation, not the 0-100 kinda action

i also found out that all of that self criticism was actually...

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i stand for your bigness

Oct 18, 2021

i stand for your bigness
i stand for what you are stepping into
i stand for everything that is possible…for you
i stand for the wet & wealthy version of your Highest Goddess

i won’t entertain your small self stories
& all the reasons you can’t

i won’t believe your distortions

i won’t hear your excuses

i won’t hold those for you

what i will hold…

is your vision

more pleasure
more purpose
more money
more freedom
more play

that’s why you should hire me
as your coach & mentor

i will always remind you of your power
…& that you can have it all

ready to OWN your BIGNESS?
dm me for IN THE FLESH Mystery School details

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the very thing you are scared of.... is the very thing that will set you free.

Oct 17, 2021

the very thing you are scared of.... is the very thing that will set you free.

every single woman i meet & coach (myself included)

is deeply intimidated by her DESIRES... & POWER (at first)

the reasons you keep holding yourself back from pulling the trigger & signing up....

is not because you're scared of the shadow of what could arise from the darkness

it's actually because you're so in your KNOWING of your Absolute Power & Infinite Abundance

that it becomes A LOT to RECEIVE

it's a LOT on your nervous system

which is why...WE DON'T.... & literally cannot....DO IT ALONE

we NEED co regulation on this journey

we need somatic practices to breakthrough

i hope this empowers you to trust in YOUR desires...

even when the 'fuckkkkkkkkkk this is scary' comes in 

this could be the start .... or the next step....

of being more connected to your Truth

if you're ready to take the deep dive with me...

'cause you know the benefit of being up close & personal with...

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living a pussy oriented life....

Oct 16, 2021

living a pussy oriented life....

does NOT mean you're always dripping in pleasure & orgasms

it means...

being the creatrix of your life & following your pussy truths...


[or who's watching]

even if it means:

>>loosing people

>>walking away from a client that wants to pay you because it's not aligned

>>leaving relationships just because you choose different

>>investing when it's scary af

...just because Pussy  said so!

THAT"S living a pussy driven life

it's about TRUTH

& Intentionally transmuting what your small self deems as ordinary & boring & not aligned...

to orgasmic ecstasy & purpose

(get off on every stroke)

it's taking the SHIT & making it GOLD

with the swirl of your hips + the smack of your lips

...that's the work of the Goddess...

she is leading you to something you cannot see with your human eyes

that’s the whole thing about it…


& mostly…


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can you TRUST itโ€™ll all be taken care of?

Oct 14, 2021

can you TRUST it’ll all be taken care of?

the clients i love working with are the ones that say YES….

& ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ it’ll all be taken care of

it’s not blind trust
it’s > Truth trust <

they feel my Truth
i feel their Truth

& we say ๐™”๐™€๐™Ž to the ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ together

(+ they know me for years from this platform x tons of free content & @trppodcast)

we can’t know how it unfolds
it’s ๐’Š๐’Ž๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’ƒ๐’๐’†

…but the truth we agreed upon
is Truth itself

& from there…

anything is possible
anything gets to be created

because Truth doesn’t change
but the ways it ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™จ it self does

the more you know
the more you actually go into micromanaging

& really…

๐’˜๐’‰๐’ ๐’…๐’๐’†๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’”๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’†?
we end up
missing the juice
the magic

because the small self
tries to understand & conceptualize

what is NOT
understandable from that level of logic/consciousness

so again….

can you TRUST it’ll all be taken care of?

can you TRUST the feeling in your body...

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