'You never initiate $ex or come onto me.' ..said every boyfriend I ever had

Mar 10, 2023

This always made me feel so ๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ข๐™š๐™›๐™ช๐™ก

I felt like less of a woman

It brought up stories that said:
๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸปI wasn’t a $exu@l person
๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸปSomething was wrong with me
๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸปI didn’t know what I was doing
๐Ÿ‘‰๐ŸปI wasn’t enough
๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป& they were better off with someone else

๐ŸšจThis happened for 2 REASONS…

1๏ธโƒฃ I didn’t feel ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ or in my $exu@l expression. I grew up with shame around $ex, ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™œ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™œ๐™ง๐™–๐™ข๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ (wrong, dirty), & a lack of $ex ed (aka ple@$ure)

I picked up on societal cues that told me $ex was for men’s ple@$ure…& my body was there to ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ

It left me ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค...๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ž๐...& ๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐

2๏ธโƒฃI later learned, I’m a primary Energetic in the €rotic Blueprints™๏ธ (DK yours?! Dm me for the quiz link)

This means I’m:

Highly turned on by anticipation, tease, & space.

I need grounding, safety, connection & SLOW anticipatory touch to get me going.

๐Ÿ’กSo, in learning that most of my partners were the opposite blueprints as me ($exu@l)

we had a hard time understanding each other & spoke a diff $exu@l language!

Me initiating $ex looked like….

“Hey, can we just hug for a min? Be present with each other?”

For a $exu@l, that does NOT translate to $ex!

They get turned on by getting right to the punch ๐ŸฅŠ


a hand reaching around to grab their goods while they cook dinner

…something that for us energetics, could be a total turn OFF!

I shared this story during an E.B. Workshop & there were so many ‘AH-HA!’ moments…

Ready to have your mind, heart & $ex blown wide open?!

Join me & @hey_birdie_co at @pachahouse_denver THIS SUNDAY 3/12 for an โœจ€rotic Blueprint Immersive Experience!

(If you are not local to Denver, message me for an online experience you can start anytime!)

Other ways to play…

๐Ÿฏ๐ŸŒŠFirst ever *Self Ple@$ure Circle* at @venusvalleyboulder this Thursday 7-9pm 3/16 ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ $50

๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ 1 month hybrid container
๐Ÿ”๏ธ 2-day in person immersion at @venusvalleyboulder ๐Ÿ”๏ธ
โค๏ธ‍๐Ÿ”ฅ 2 x 75 minute coaching calls
๐Ÿ’ปAwaken Your Divine Feminine
โœจ15k - your investment can go towards VENUS VOYAGE (6/12 mo container)

PM for all links ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ


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