We don’t need anything outside or on top of ourselves to feel more of who we ALREADY are

“Wow I thought that was a man at first” said an important male figure in my family when he saw a photo of my newly defined abs at 19

Everything inside of me collapsed & crumbled

Here I was…

Working so fucking hard to achieve the body I thought would have me finally be number one instead of number two

It was in that moment every fear & insecurity about the very small size of my natural breasts became ALL. I. THOUGHT. ABOUT.

And from that moment forward

I told everyone, “I’m getting boobs when I make this bread” (obv from Long Island)

Bet my little manifestor self got them a few years later.

Last night,

I walked by this mirror & recalled that moment as I noticed my abs

No more implants
No more swelling from surgery

Just me

I feel MORE feminine in my body than ever before

I feel my impact influence & affect with men more than I ever have. Cleanly. Not mixed with validation & value & worth. Just clear clean circuitry.

I don’t need large breasts to feel feminine

In fact, we don’t need anything outside or on top of ourselves to feel more of who we ALREADY are 👌🏻