“Wow I thought that was a man at first” said an important male figure in my family when he saw a photo of my newly defined abs at 19
Everything inside of me collapsed & crumbled
Here I was…
Working so fucking hard to achieve the body I thought would have me finally be number one instead of number two
It was in that moment every fear & insecurity about the very small size of my natural breasts became ALL. I. THOUGHT. ABOUT.
And from that moment forward
I told everyone, “I’m getting boobs when I make this bread” (obv from Long Island)
Bet my little manifestor self got them a few years later.
I walked by this mirror & recalled that moment as I noticed my abs
No more implants
No more swelling from surgery
I feel MORE feminine in my body than ever before
I feel my impact influence & affect with men more than I ever have. Cleanly. Not mixed with validation & value & worth. Just clear clean circuitry.
I don’t need large breasts to feel feminine
In fact, we don’t need anything outside or on top of ourselves to feel more of who we ALREADY are 👌🏻