Say something about my nipples. I dare you.
I get a lot of questions from women about unwanted attention from men.
‘I want to be sexually liberated.
‘I want to stand in my power.
‘But men scare me.
‘I feel unsafe around them.
I GET YOU.
I felt unsafe in my sexual body most of my life.
I’m gonna say 2 really edgy things:
1 Somewhere inside of you, prob deep in your subconscious, you 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 it. In fact, dare I say, you 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 it.
2 We can’t wait for men to respect us to stand in our erotic freedom.
That shit is 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒔.
Before panties bunch, I’m not talking about violent sexual attacks, harassment, & abuse.
What I’m highlighting is the deep rooted desire of our feminine hearts for male attention & gaze.
That. Is. Beautiful.
Modern day feminism has smashed on us for even wanting that, telling us to
✊🏻need no man.
We are the gift.
Our 𝙗𝙤𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙨 are a gift.
And their love, admiration & appreciation for it, deep down, is 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗲.
We’ve shamed sex, sexual desire, expression & empowerment for...way too f*cking long.
If we shame our men for their 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐚𝐥 of the feminine, we’re in turn, shaming our sex.
We’re saying our sex is 𝙩𝙤𝙤 𝙢𝙪𝙘𝙝.
It’s gets us in trouble.
It should be put out.
It’s too dangerous.
That sounds like religion to me.
What we need is NORMALIZATION of our bodies.
Normalization of our sex.
To see these parts of ourselves & others in a 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗲𝘅𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘇𝗲𝗱 way.
In their inherently 𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙣𝙩 way.
So when you see my nipples on IG,
and any other female body,
You can appreciate it without needing to press your hard c*ck up against it to 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙫𝙚 something.
It all comes down to 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁.
And we need to 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 what we want to 𝗴𝗲𝘁.
This isn’t about who said what when,
or who did what first.
This is about changing the trajectory from:
men VS women » men AND women...
U N I T E D
Isn’t it time we have each other’s backs?
‘Cause I’m ready to walk with you…