my $ex ed growing up

Mar 22, 2023

I never understood why I had feelings in my body as if I had been $exu@lly abused, when I wasn’t


there were the normalized things most women experience to create this lack of safety like:

» Saying ‘yes’ when really I meant ‘no’
» Feeling $exu@lized & objectified in public
» Not feeling ready for $ex but feeling like I had to
» Pressure not to be the prude girl or the $lut
» Waking up next to someone but not remembering how we got there
» Neglecting my needs & desires by making everyone else more important than me

..but all of those things are just part of being a woman right? ๐Ÿคข

I racked my brain for years trying to figure out what was WRONG with me & why $ex felt so hard ๐Ÿ˜ต‍๐Ÿ’ซ


When my clients come to me with a similar experience

๐Ÿ’กI remind them of TWO very important things:

1๏ธโƒฃtrauma is not what happened TO you, it’s what happened inside of you as a result of the experience

2๏ธโƒฃour bodies are imprinted with 14 generations worth of memory - traumas & all - live in our tissue & DNA

It’s not just YOU you’re feeling, it’s also the collective body + consciousness

If this story resonates…

SWIPE for a thorough journal practice!

You’ve got this, mama๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

๐Ÿšจ *Next step* is joining SQUIRT ๐ŸŒŠ

๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ most ๐—ถ๐—ป-๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ต, ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐˜ƒ$$๐˜† ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด you’ll ever take to ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ฏ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜บ’๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜จ@$๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ข๐˜ญ

SQUIRT is the $ex ed class you never had…

except instead of wanting to run & hide when the bell rings

you’ll fall ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ-๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ-๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—ฉ๐—˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฒ

…in a way you ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฏ’๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐Ÿฅน

2๏ธโƒฃ WAYS TO JOIN:
๐Ÿ”๏ธ in person on 4/9 from 1:30-6 at @venusvalleyboulder
๐Ÿ’ป the online experience (BONUS when you join by 4/9 - 60 min Q/A call with me!)
Both are $333

(Check pinned posts for more info!)

P.S. also enrolling for 4/20 Self Ple@$ure circle & 1:1 Mentorship & bodywork packages (VENUS VENTURE/VOYAGE)

MUST DM me for all links!โ˜€๏ธ

#healingsexualtrauma #sexualtrauma #healinggenerationaltrauma #somatichealing #somaticsexology #somaticsexologist #healingtrauma #sexcoach #journalprompts


50% Complete

Two Step

Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua.