Don’t outsource your ple@$ure

👇🏻Take Sally for ex...
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Sally enters a new partnership

She goes from self ple@$uring a few juicy times a week to no SP at all
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What once was her time for 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝒐𝒏𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔, 𝒔𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒊𝒕𝒚 & 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈…

has now been OUTSOURCED to her man.
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The $ex they have is 𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩

But she’s unknowingly a shapeshifter blueprint 🌈

(aren’t we all though??)

with lots of 𝙘𝙖𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙮 & 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙞𝙧𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙫𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙩𝙮.

…woman is 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐅𝐄𝐃…

& in this case,

less self ple@$ure = less self connection time.
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🕰As time goes on...
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✖️She starts finding herself 𝙞𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚, 𝙩𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩, 𝙤𝙣 𝙚𝙙𝙜𝙚 - unable to relax & easily frustrated.
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✖️She also notices her 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠, as well as her shine, softness & sovereignty.
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✖️She starts to project onto him.
✖️She gets resentful.
✖️She’s unconsciously making him responsible for feeling good.
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And when he doesn’t, emotional explosion🌋
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Thing is...she doesn’t even know why.
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🔴Moral of Sally’s story...
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❌Don’t outsource your ple@$ure❌
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It’s yours.
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You don’t rely on your partner to give you a shower 💦

Instead, you invite them into your 𝘢𝘭𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘺 $exy shower time & join forces.
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They clean, you clean, you tell them how you like it, & together..it’s MORE than you could have made yourself.
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Same with $ex.

You bring your FULLNESS, they bring theirs..& together..you create magic 💫
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Your body.
Your ple@$ure.
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