When we go into relationships without being clear in who we are, what we want, or what we stand for, we leave a lot of room for things to get 𝙢𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙮!
We stretch ourselves into situations we don’t really want to be in (or ones we don’t feel 𝙨𝙖𝙛𝙚 in) & we tell ourselves we’re 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 to handle it anyway.
(I was the Queen of this!)
our hearts close,
& we feel like we’ve been taken advantage of.
(Watch my last IGTV for more on *how to stay open & protected*)
When the truth of it is, we never even set our boundaries in the first place.
We play the game of:
“Will they love me more if I sacrifice myself?”
“Will they give back everything I give them?”
“Will they see how much I care if I do this?”
“Will they stay if I chose them over me?”
We play coy with our boundaries, while internally, we are DYING for them to just GUESS it right.
We are setting them up for 𝘧𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘶𝘳𝘦😐
We are setting them up to be made 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨😑
Setting boundaries is a deep practice!
We have to look at the relationship we have to our needs & desires.
Do we let ourselves have needs?
Do we let our needs be met by others?
Or do we try to do it all ourselves?
Do we feel guilty for our desires?
Do we make them wrong?
The reality of it is...
People may walk out of our lives.
It’s a little dicey.
But boundaries create order for personal freedom.
And leave us with what is meant to be ours.
On 5/29 I’ll be leading you through a potent 5 step process & a saucy sex magic ritual to (1) get you clear in what you’re available/ not available for (2) to magnetize the right relationships for you!
For *Calling In Your Ideal Partners x Lovers* Workshop details, comment ‘more’ & send you the info 💛
The $111 for the workshop goes towards my new course - LOVE S3X MEN - if it feels in alignment for you :)
Relationships, polarity, love, s3x, communication, intimacy & integrating your inner masculine.