Busting Common Sex Myths
#1 Talking about sex does not take away from the magic
But what we make it MEAN about us when they DO // DO NOT pick up on our subtle messages DOES👇🏻
✖️he doesn’t understand my body & my soulmate should def just know so I guess this means he’s not ‘the one’
✖️he makes me squirt as soon as touches my p*ssie he’s everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner we’re totally meant to be
Hate to tell you (but actually I love it 🙊)…
Sex gets better with practice!👏🏻
💣That immediate firework show at the start of a relationship typically implies a trauma bond that’s activating a familiar (often harmful) pattern from childhood 💣
Consent / boundary / desire conversations can be such a TURN ON 💦
I make sure I talk about sex on every first date
Not just because I’m a somatic sexologist…
but because if we’re not sexually/sensually/energetically compatible - what’s the dang point??
Sex shouldn’t be a guessing game❌
We ask what they want for dinner, why wouldn’t we ask them what they want in the bedroom & why shouldn’t we ask for what we want?!
Sometimes we want Mexican while other times it makes us sick to our stomach 🤷🏼♀️
These likes & dislikes change over time
Our partners/lovers might know our top food choices, but it’s still something we ask…EVERY TIME!
It should be the same for sex & intimacy😘
P. S. It’s not too late to join LOVE SEX MEN. The first module drops 6/29. You know where to find the application!