A Hack For Better Boundaries

While I used to really love the idea of boundaries, because they’re incredibly self serving (can you tell I’m a virgo?), I really only loved just that…

the IDEA

The rebel inside of me

loved to play with fire

& loved the drama of:

xx having them & not having them

xx having them & having them be broken

xx having them, letting them be broken & then playing like a pig in shit when the shit storm came

When I dismantled these internal systems,

Awakened these lost parts of mySelf

& found my own agency,

Boundaries became a SPORT.

xx How can I use boundaries to have better relationships?

xx How can I use boundaries to bring more erotic energy in?

I shifted from looking at boundary setting as:

setting boundaries with others

TO

setting boundaries with the Self in RELATION to others

Standing in your Truth isn’t just about Knowing who you are & speaking up.

It’s about the FOLLOW THROUGH.

As you stand in your Truth,

ask yourself:

What boundaries need to be set with Self in relation to others to honor your inner Being?

What needs to be in place to honor that Truth & keep the Self in Integrity?

‘Making boundaries sexy & using them for more turn on in your relationships’ is coming your way tomorrow

See you then

xoxo