SELF LOVE can sustain us, but to *thrive* in community, which is how we live, we need to receive love from others.
Contrary to popular opinion, powerful, achieving women desire love as much as we desire to be loving,
because we know that love will enhance all areas of our lives, especially work.
When I had my first somatic/$exual awakening, I learned this in my body
For most of my life, I was the hard, armored, strong, independent one
I didn’t know how to ask for help, 𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘐 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘵. I didn’t want to show my vulnerabilities, 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘐’𝘥 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘬𝘦𝘥. I didn’t want to give love so freely, 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘥𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘰𝘧.
It wasn’t until I found this work that I changed the narrative in my tissue
I started to let my 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 & 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 out
I began to trust my feminine; my softness, slowdown & pu$$y
I married my $ex to my spirituality & I experienced freedom in my body for...
Welcome back to The Reclamation Project! In her first episode back after a restorative rebrand, Julianne invites IN THE FLESH alumnus and one-on-one container rockstar Erin Ashley to share her story and her transformation.
Erin used to be connected to self and pleasure but surgery, trauma, and medical menopause got in the way. She spent three years disconnected. Through IN THE FLESH, Erin was able to rebuild and reactivate the cords that tie her to pleasure, pu$$y, desire and more. A truly non judgemental space of sisterhood and priestesshood is a gift that allows for work, growth, and healing in safety and confidence.
Her progress was subtle and often occurred after work was done during the integration period, or even weeks later. Julianne saw Erin showing up for herself and her sisters throughout the process and invited her into a year-long one-on-one container.
Now, Julianne asks Erin to share her journey and tell us why containers like this matter.
Key topics of...
Some of my absolutely jaw dropping favorite moments from last years IN THE FLESH Mystery School
(Sensual erotic blueprint feast , morning somatic movement, truly holding one another, somatic sessions not shown because because )
My favorite session from every weekend was always the very last one
…where we would sit at the dinner table & share what we saw in each other, what we are most proud of her for, celebrating her growth & expansion, truly seeing her in her magnificence & power - & saying, ‘We see you. We love you. Keep going.’
Holding each other to the highest..
Seeing past identity & difference..
Loving one another in their places of hardship & resistance..
Not letting her settle for anything less than her fullness..
Being the standard we wish to see in the world..
This is IN THE FLESH
community, sisterhood, facilitator training, quantum transformational bodywork, pu$$y reclamation, erotic blueprints, somatic practice & so. much....
Tonight's yoga class invitation...
Can you still have the experience you want when the conditions & circumstances are not to your liking?
Can you belong to a space that's not just convenient & sometimes what you want?
You deserve the best
I thoroughly enjoy discovering the places I’m not fully asking for what I want the way I want it
Where are youu playing small & not paying attention?
If you weren’t playing small or hiding ..who the f would you be?
Like..you’ll get my acceptance & love regardless..but..I wanna know & support THAT wild & free embodied mama
She here to shake shit up & have a big ole soul journey
And that’s what I’m here for
If your goal is to be in the top 1-2% of whatever it is you are looking to be, do, have or give...the concentration of the people who are in that top 1-2% is DILUTED in the general population by the 98% people who are NOT VIBRATING at that frequency.
You must get on a plane, to get into THAT room.
'Everything is ENERGY & that's all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality that you want & you cannot help but get that reality. It can be NO OTHER WAY.
This is not philosophy, this is PHYSICS.
- Alber Einstein
Whether you know it or not, we are all LIVING the above statement, for better or for worse.
Who you surround yourself with matters.
And, you can FEEL IT.
I just spent 2 hours talking with my pu$$y biz coach about the lessons I learned in having less direct biz support over the past 8 mos
I learned A LOT
Especially as the woman who has gone HARDDD in the paint over the last 5 years w/ mentors & investments (over 500k)
Summary of my...
PSA - Trauma doesn't get resolved through talk therapy.
It lives in our tissues...
not in our heads.
you'll move the needle WAY more with:
*org@$ms & a regular self ple@$ure practice*
Ple@$ure IS healing.
End of Story.
It’s NOT the route for the faint of heart.
The left hand path, the way of pleasure & devotion - will, IMO, challenge you & your clients way more than any talk therapy session.
Which is also why the results & rewards are so dramatic & profound.
Because you get past the surface (physical) & into the emotional, truth, & transpersonal, archetypal realms.
When magick meets magick
Dec 9 is our kick off day for IN THE FLESH Mystery School - a facilitator training for Somatic $exology, Spiritual Psychology, Quantum Transformational Bodywork & the €rotic Blueprints.
Years of spinning my wheels & chasing my tail trying to crawl out of my own shit…was the BIGGEST gift.
I’ll teach you it all inside ITF.
If you woke up today & knew you could make mistakes without it meaning you’re a failure or a fuck up ..what would you be doing?
If you woke up today & knew you couldn’t fuck it up/everything is literally perfect ..what would you be doing?
If you woke up today & knew EVERYthing is working FOR you ..what would you be doing?
If you woke up today & knew your success was fucking inevitable ..what would you be doing?
If you woke up today & knew the offer you really wanted to sell would in fact sell out ..what would you be doing?
When I was 23 I read a book called, ‘Feel the Fear & DO it Anyway!’ & that has literally been a huge building block of my success from 5 years ago with no clients, broke carless homeless (thank you angel of a brother for taking me in) to running a multi 6 fig biz & @venusvalleyboulder
It’s one of the biggest edges in entrepreneurship (the daily stretching past your comfort zone)
If you woke up today & wholeheartedly decided your happiness, self expression & truth were more important than other peoples opinions ..how different would your day be?
If you woke up today & wholeheartedly decided “IDGAF about being likable, I care about my authenticity” ..how different would your day be?
If you woke up today & wholeheartedly decided you’d rather be WHOLE than GOOD ..how different would your day be?
If you woke up today & wholeheartedly decided “I BELONG!” ..how different would your day be?
If you woke up today & wholeheartedly decided “I’m a badass motherlover here to spread my juicy seeds of creation (offerings of service) all over the world cuz it’s FUN & JOYOUS” ..how different would your day be?
What choices would you make in your biz & relationships?
What would you *actually* say online/ to your best girlfriend?
What clothes would you wear & HOW would you wear them?...
The story aka magick of @venusvalleyboulder Part 1
The synchronicity started before we even knew what was happening..
A few moments after I took this video, I met a ‘random’ woman here at the creek [Lefthand]
I was in an immersion w/ my mentor & we visited this water every summer month together
She came over & sat close to us on the sunny side of the stream
We flirted with smiles & I obsessed over her sweet loyal dog who patiently awaited her creek-y cold plunge routine
She complimented my artwork & we went separate ways
3 days later, I went to see @venusvalleyboulder w/ my realtor
I fell in love
Paul trusted my love for the property so we put in an offer without him seeing it
A week later he came home from his trip & we set a house viewing time
He arrived first
I spotted our agent & the sellers chatting w/P in the driveway
As I walked over, an adorable, oddly-familiar pup ran over to greet me..
& as I looked up to shake the hand of the...