Donโ€™t outsource your ple@$ure

Mar 15, 2023

Take Sally for ex...

Sally enters a new partnership

She goes from self ple@$uring a few juicy times a week to no SP at all

What once was her time for ๐’„๐’๐’๐’๐’†๐’„๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’, ๐’๐’๐’†๐’๐’†๐’”๐’”, ๐’”๐’†๐’“๐’†๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š & ๐’‡๐’†๐’†๐’…๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ…

has now been OUTSOURCED to her man.

The $ex they have is ๐™œ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ

But she’s unknowingly a shapeshifter blueprint

(aren’t we all though??)

with lots of ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฅ๐™–๐™˜๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฎ & ๐™™๐™š๐™จ๐™ž๐™ง๐™š ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ซ๐™–๐™ง๐™ž๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฎ.

…woman is ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ๐…๐„๐ƒ…

& in this case,

less self ple@$ure = less self connection time.

As time goes on...

She starts finding herself ๐™ž๐™ง๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™–๐™—๐™ก๐™š, ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ, ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™š๐™™๐™œ๐™š - unable to relax & easily frustrated.

She also notices her ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ž๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ , as well as her shine, softness & sovereignty.

She starts to project onto him.
She gets resentful.
She’s unconsciously making him responsible for feeling good.

And when he doesn’t, emotional explosion

Thing is...she doesn’t even know why.

Moral of Sally’s story...

Don’t outsource your ple@$ure

It’s yours.


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Blueprint Workshop Testimonials

Mar 15, 2023

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Imagine going from: ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ & ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™˜๐™  ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™—๐™š๐™™๐™ง๐™ค๐™ค๐™ข ๐—–๐—ข๐—ก๐—™๐—œ๐——๐—˜๐—ก๐—ง, ๐—˜๐— ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ช๐—˜๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—— & ๐—œ๐—ก๐—œ๐—ง๐—œ๐—”๐—ง๐—œ๐—ก๐—š from a THREE HR workshop with a bio break!!!

Make it more of a no-brainer

By the way: these are mothers, partners & biz owners.

Anyone can do this.

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P.S. If you’re ready to quantum transform & step into your power, purpose + ple@$ure - VENUS VENTURE is a 1 month 1:1 immersive experience like no other 2 days in person, hands on & in bodywork, virtual coaching, somatics & so much more. This is for the woman really ready to spread her wings & fly high.

You’ll never be the same.


There are just a few spots left for the Self Ple@$ure Cirlce tomorrow night at @venusvalleyboulder...

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๐ŸŒŠ Self Plโ‚ฌ@$ure Circles at @venusvalleyboulder ๐Ÿ†

Mar 14, 2023

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Self Pl€@$ure Circles at @venusvalleyboulder 

How to lean into your edges
Q/A from IG story
What to expect
Setting the container
Why these circles are so transformative
What to bring!

Here for any other questions! You must DM me to claim your spot for this Thursdays session

the ‘to bring’ LIST
Yoga mat
Altar offering/s
Sensation play items / Ple@$ure toys
your Blueprint
Anything else that feels comforting and ple@$urable to you!


This will go onto @trppodcast in case you also dislike the fact that the fast forward button is gone for IG LIVES Episode #350.

Ready to quantum transform with me as your ple@$ure priestess? VENUS VENTURE 1:1 immersions are enrolling. 15k

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$ex is cool but have you ever self ple@$ured in a circle with your friends?

Mar 14, 2023

‍ Ladies may raise the roof off of @venusvalleyboulder TherSDAY night! I didn’t know y’all were as thirsty for a circle as I was!

Swipe for a Goddesss’ testimonial love poem after her first circle!!

My inner host, mistress, priestess is beyond titillated to welcome you into higher levels of ple@$ure MMMMM!

For those of you sitting on the side like
‘what actually happens there?’
‘That’s hella edgy for me’
‘what will my man’s think?’

I’ll be going LIVE later today to share more of the deliciously drooling details & what to bring

Check story for details!

Spots are legit limited :) claim your spot! $50

have you been to a circle before? Tell me your experience below!

P.S. enrolling 1:1 Somatic $exological immersions

VENUS VENTURE / VOYAGE 15k one month experience / 2 day in person immersion at VV + bonus extra , you know what to do for more info

#selfpleasure #selfpleasurepractice ...

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Ple@$ure Hack

Mar 12, 2023


What blueprint do you think this speaks to?

More tips at tomorrow’s event

#embodimentcoach #eroticblueprints #eroticblueprintsevent #pleasurehack #selfpleasure #selfpleasurepractice

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There was a time I cried every time my boyfriend tried to talk to me about $ex

Mar 11, 2023

I remember sitting in one of the back rooms at Equinox on the Upper East Side

We were on a break after a morning of training clients when ๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜..๐—ถ๐˜

Next thing I knew..

My hoodie was completely pulled over my face & ๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ ๐™—๐™–๐™ฌ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ข๐™ฎ ๐™›๐™ซ๐™˜๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™š๐™ฎ๐™š๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ


..had ๐™ฃ๐™ค ๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™– what was happening inside of me

And I,

had no understanding for this ๐™›๐™–๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ค ๐™›๐™–๐™ข๐™ž๐™ก๐™ž๐™–๐™ง ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ง๐™ž๐™š๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š.

‘๐—ช๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—œ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€?’ I cried

‘I don’t understand what happened to me.’

I ran through a list of boyfriends in my head..

‘This happened with Joe.
And John, too.’

completely locked out of my body
terrified to talk about $ex
& absolutely trapped by the deep yearning FOR..AND simultaneous threat

2 things saved my heart & $ex:

1Somatics..healing trauma from my body (childhood, relational, ancestral, transpersonal, etc.)

2$exuality..putting pv$$y & ple@$ure in the front seat (€rotic blueprints, bodywork,...

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Said the $โ‚ฌxu@l to the Energetic

Mar 11, 2023

Said the $€xu@l to the Energetic

Second slide is my man holding me down IRL while I’m on vaca with my bff

Thank you @rebecccaelswit for the first

Join me & @hey_birdie_co at @pachahouse_denver THIS SUNDAY 3/12 for an €rotic Blueprint Immersive Experience!

(If you are not local to Denver, message me for an online experience you can start anytime!)

Other ways to play…

First ever *Self Ple@$ure Circle* at @venusvalleyboulder this Thursday 7-9pm 3/16 $50

1 month hybrid container
2-day in person immersion at @venusvalleyboulder 
‍ 2 x 75 minute coaching calls
Awaken Your Divine Feminine
15k - your investment can go towards VENUS VOYAGE (6/12 mo container)

PM for all links

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If you're scared to speak your truth to your friend when you're fully clothed...

Mar 10, 2023

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Working with your $ex is like taking a rocket ship into your soul’s curriculum & 10x-ing your healing power

There’s no hiding when you get in between the sheets

Ways to work together & shed massive shame:

€rotic Blueprint Immersive Experience this SUNDAY 3/12 w/ @hey_birdie_co at @pachahouse_denver!!

(If you are not local to Denver, I have an online experience you can start anytime!)

First ever *Self Ple@$ure Circle* at @venusvalleyboulder happening Thursday 7-9pm 3/16 $50

Enrolling for high level 1:1 immersions - VENUS VENTURE & VENUS VOYAGE

Message me for the info <3

#somatics #somaticcoach #somaticsexologist #somaticsexologicalbodywork #QuantumTransformation #holisticcoach #somatichealing #somatictherapy #eroticblueprintscoach #eroticblueprints #somaticsexology #embodimentcoach

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'You never initiate $ex or come onto me.' ..said every boyfriend I ever had

Mar 10, 2023

This always made me feel so ๐™จ๐™๐™–๐™ข๐™š๐™›๐™ช๐™ก

I felt like less of a woman

It brought up stories that said:
I wasn’t a $exu@l person
Something was wrong with me
I didn’t know what I was doing
I wasn’t enough
& they were better off with someone else

This happened for 2 REASONS…

1 I didn’t feel ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ or in my $exu@l expression. I grew up with shame around $ex, ๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™œ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™œ๐™ง๐™–๐™ข๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ (wrong, dirty), & a lack of $ex ed (aka ple@$ure)

I picked up on societal cues that told me $ex was for men’s ple@$ure…& my body was there to ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ

It left me ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค...๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ž๐...& ๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐

2I later learned, I’m a primary Energetic in the €rotic Blueprints™ (DK yours?! Dm me for the quiz link)

This means I’m:

Highly turned on by anticipation, tease, & space.

I need grounding, safety, connection & SLOW anticipatory touch to get me going.

So, in learning that most of my partners were the opposite blueprints as me ($exu@l)

we had a hard...

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How to stop putting pressure on yourself to orgasm in a certain amount of time

Mar 09, 2023

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Try this for a massive expansion in the bedroom!

P.S. Ready to play in my world?

€rotic Blueprint Immersive Experience this SUNDAY 3/12 w/ @hey_birdie_co at @pachahouse_denver

(If you are not local to Denver, message me for an online experience you can start anytime!)

First ever *Self Ple@$ure Circle* at @venusvalleyboulder happening Thursday 7-9pm 3/16 $50

Enrolling for high level 1:1 immersions

1 month hybrid container (in person/virtual)
2-day in person immersion at @venusvalleyboulder 
‍ 2 x 75 minute coaching calls (prep & integration)
Awaken Your Divine Feminine: 8 module program to soften into your power, shed $3xu@l shame, & come home to your body’s wisdom
15k - your investment can go towards VENUS VOYAGE

6 or 12 month hybrid container (in person/virtual)
monthly 2-day in immersion at @venusvalleyboulder
‍monthly 75 min coaching & mentorship call
M-F Voxer access
my entire content...

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