i remember being on t0p of a lover somewhere around 4 years back….when he asked me this Q for the first time….& let me tell you….i FROZE for a COUNTABLE amount of seconds….
i was flooded with a milli different things i COULD say….but none of them were really coming from what my ๐ฑ pu$$y wanted….
instead i went into…
๐ญ“what does HE want to hear?!”
๐ญ“how do i say it in a SEXY way?!”
๐ญ“and wait…what the fuck do i actually even WANT right now?!”
EVER HAPPEN TO YOU?!๐๐ป
๐ฉ๐ซ when this comes up for clients, i recommend a few things:
(bookmark these tools for home practice๐ฝ)
๐ฅif you’re IN the moment…
๐ฃ NAME IT:
i know, it’s vulnerable. but that = INTIMACY & CONNECTION. which is what you really want @ the end of the day. NOT communicating what’s real for you in the moment, ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฏ๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ญ๐ง๐๐ซ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ค, & your ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ ๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐. besides, the draw back can be felt ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ! allow the mystery to come to the surface, & then PLAY the energy of THAT…..TENSION is SEXY!
โช BEFORE the moment…
PRACTICE: my favorite homeplay practice for this challenge is to have a SOLO SEX session. as you follow your pleasure & touch yourself, TALK to yourself OUT LOUDโผ๏ธ challenge yourself to come up with ๐ sentences you COULD say to a lover. the KEY is saying it out loud - it’ll be SO much easier for you to do this with someone ELSE, if you can do it with yourself FIRST ๐๐ป
๐จ if you’re looking to un-FREEZE & open your voice in the bedroom to have better sex.....& feel hella satisfied…
join voice expert ๐ค@jessica.sirena & i tomorrow @ 10 MDT for Becoming Your Own Best Lover Workshop Series๐๐ป
we want to FEEL & HEAR your inner goddess!!! & we’ve got the tools to tease her out ๐ผ
the sign up link is in my bio <3
p.s. you are PERFECT even in your freeze state. even when you have no words. nothing is broken, wrong, or needs to be fixed. i just simply know what is possible having come from this place, to where i am now. & i selfishly want the same for you ๐ฝ
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