re: perfectionism & the struggle to orgasm
do you feel like full body pleasure is hard to achieve between the chatter in your head & the difficulty of relaxing into the moment?
i've found a strong thread between those of us that have the...
black & white mondset....the all-or-nothing way of thinking....& perfectionist tendencies.
(also a SHADOW side of the Sensual Erotic Blueprint)
when we're oh so focused on:
the goal + the outcome
the way it should go.
the way it should feel.
the way I should smell.
thewas I should sound.
how long it should/shouldn't take to have an orgasm...
we become further & further away from the pleasure that's available by be-ing on the journey.
....the same pleasure wave that will most likely take us to the orgasm we're after-
but only when we R E L E A S E the pressure of all the 'shoulds'
perfectionist, over-achievers & people pleasers-
LOVE control
control over our bodies, our expressions, how we're perceived & how much we put our hearts out there....
in fear of being:
too much,
too vulnerable,
too 'weak'
vulnerability becomes something we even hide from ourselves
if you feel yourself in this:
let pleasure be your playground for experimentation
let it be the place where you CAN
slow down
breathe
open
allow
receive
let go
let it be the place you:
release the pressure, the force & the pushing, to make space for full body relaxation & surrender.
don't get me wrong,
this takes time, patience, practice & trust
but we're all capable.
Denver friends! ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฑ ๐๐ง๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ Workshop is tonight @cosmicteaholisticshop at 5 PM MDT! ๐ซ๐ฆ๐
come play to increase your pleasure & feel sexually fed x expressed
message me for the sign up link<3
(if you’re intrigued & have no idea what the blueprints are, dm me for the quiz link to find out what your stack is!)
lastly….if you’re ready to go deep with me….
we’re enrolling now for IN THE FLESH Mystery School, a facilitator training for body sovereignty, somatic sexology, quantum bodywork & the erotic blueprints!
p.s.๐จa VIRTUAL Erotic Blueprint workshop is happening on November 7th — it’s 3 deliciously juicy hours + $222
โ๏ธwe’ll be connecting 1:1
โ๏ธlearning about the blueprints
โ๏ธplaying with our pleasure ready body’s to discover our turn ons / turn offs
โ๏ธ& i’ll also be doing a demo (with my wolverine clawsโ)
message me for the sign up link! ๐ฝ
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